No one is asking her to have a spotlessly clean house or even be tidy all the time. Honestly, if it was just her, I wouldn’t care what she does. She is bringing a baby into a house that she said people find disgusting. you don’t see that as a red flag? Yes a bit of dirt and germs are good for us. No argument there. A…

Oh there’s totally a difference between daily clutter and dirty. I didn’t mean to be an asshole to this lady, but when she said her husband and other people find her house disgusting... that’s where I drew the line.

Ok, I can see that cat peeing in the sink happening. I had one that liked to pee in the tub. Another poster had the right idea, keep a bit of water in the sink, they won’t be going to pee in there after that. The rest, lets be honest here: You are making excuses why you don’t clean. You choose to not learn how to…