Seriously, I have a cat who is ridiculously fat. We know it’s not healthy for her and would love her to lose weight. The problem is that we also have a tiny old lady cat who is slightly underweight. She needs every scrap of nutrition she can get. She’s got kidney and thyroid issues that they aren’t able to do much…

No one is asking her to have a spotlessly clean house or even be tidy all the time. Honestly, if it was just her, I wouldn’t care what she does. She is bringing a baby into a house that she said people find disgusting. you don’t see that as a red flag? Yes a bit of dirt and germs are good for us. No argument there. A…

Oh there’s totally a difference between daily clutter and dirty. I didn’t mean to be an asshole to this lady, but when she said her husband and other people find her house disgusting... that’s where I drew the line.

Ok, I can see that cat peeing in the sink happening. I had one that liked to pee in the tub. Another poster had the right idea, keep a bit of water in the sink, they won’t be going to pee in there after that. The rest, lets be honest here: You are making excuses why you don’t clean. You choose to not learn how to…