Would a cat door be a possibility? We trained our cat to go out in the yard. Not having a litter box is amazing and she has never had an accident in the house.

I love my parents but 2 months? Nooooo. Do not light yourself on fire to keep others warm. Do what’s best for your mental health first.  

I have posted this, already, upthread but it bears repeating.

There are definitely bars that I used to like that just seem like hellholes full of children, now. But, there are places that aren’t like that. On of my favorite bars is a brewery taproom, the average age of patrons is probably 40, and they always have last call at 10 PM, so you can have a night out and still be home…

Parental guilt trips are a monumental mind fuck, and it sucks so hard that your folks use them on you. It’s not fair, and it sounds like they feel like they have the right to exploit you because you’re their child. It’s an awful place to be in, because they’re your parents and of course you love them, but you also…

My favorite signs of the day

Hi everyone, I posted or replied a few months ago about how I lost a bunch of weight a couple years ago but then my depression hit me and gained it all back. I’m trying again now and its going mostly well with a couple minor slip ups. The problem is I tried at this time last year but then my parents came to stay with…

Yes this is normal. My theory is that when we’re all young, we’re leaving our very okay living places in order to join up with other people in our age range who tend to gather in groups. When we’re young our living spaces may include roommates, or parents, or undesirable apartments with troublesome features. Also,…

Your posts always make me want to learn to cross stitch. How hard is it to learn?

I second the sentiment of goddessoftransitory. I think there’s a sense of liberation that comes with being a post-20s single lady. Having said that, and as I was actually saying to a coworker on Friday, I’ll probably be 70 and still clubbing till dawn because you can take the girl out of Berghain but you can’t take…

This is a scarf that I’m working on. Each rows color corresponds with the high temperature of the day. In this pic it’s almost as long as my coffee table is wide, and I imagine that it will be crazy long by the time I’m done on New Year’s Eve.

The main thing is that people realise how bad things are and are actively seeking/facilitating change. I feel like Australians are, by and large, fairly politically complacent. Unless it directly affects them and their McMansion mortgage, SUV and 2.5 children they generally don’t give a fuck. Maybe I’m being too…

Hi everyone, what are we drinking? Me, Chianti. Delicious. Awesome mouth feel. But oh I’m sad.

Don’t think of going out as being the same as when you were in your twenties: tastes change as you get older! It’s not like you still play with toy trucks and dolls for a good time either (unless you do and more power to you.)

The newspaper. The Seattle Times supports tons of stuff and regularly runs stories on the programs along with how to donate. Easy peasy.

Awww I wanna see too! Have you tried clearing your web cache/cookies? When kinja was being a twat that worked for me.

I got my version of fruit juicy hair this week. I would share but for some reason I can’t share pics on here anymore. Very irritating. 6 days left until baby arrives. I just want to eat and sleep.

Hey friends! Happy Saturday Night!

I finally put together a home office after ten years of working from my couch, floor, kitchen, and sometimes my bed. I am crazy stoked-and I already had two good ideas in 24 hours while kicked back in my “thinking” pose (feet up, head back, rap loud). I also had someone come give a quote for my dream of a shoe and…

OMG, I’ve never been this early for SNS!