OK can we just admit that all bach parties are not fun? but i’ll take a slumber party vacation I don’t have to pay for over schlepping to a piano bar.

remember how she makes hotel staff pack for her?

is something wrong w that?

I will never understand the histrionics of getting married. I drop $1k on every friend’s wedding and another $1k on bachelorettes now. It would be nice if we could take a fun friend vacation! But it’s weird to be all about one person.

cliff bar donates a lot of money to a very important educational cause to me. I will always support them <3 <3

But if someone really thinks that way, why wouldn’t we want them to talk about it? You can’t fix something if you can’t talk about it.

I’m a really nice person but I’m not doing someone else’s manual labor.

lol this website is so bad at reporting and yet so sanctimonious about their reporting

wow thanks for being a commenter w an actual brain

i’m so happy none of my coworkers are like this

So we should make a movie about the victims for charity? I am a woman so I think about being a victim of a violent crime, I’m 100% ok w making a movie about my killer that helps people explore what violent crime is and how it can happen to anyone and how we need to identify and treat these fuckers. I don’t want some…

I don’t understand what you would want. Do you want your hypothetical daughter to be a famous victim? Do you want people to not be fascinated by how humanity can be evil? To not try to learn about what makes people evil so we can prevent it? Like, people don’t think he’s a fucking hero. He’s a murderer. It’s…

What was the extent to which it wasn’t true? Reading about him it def seems like a classic warning that bad things can come in pretty packages.

You guys are trotting out criticisms of true crime that are literally 40 years old at this point. The whole point is that Bundy was charming and likeable and don’t trust hot people. From a blog that likes to ugly shame trumpers and weirdly opperates under the idea that hot people = good and ugly people = bad I…

free birth control, free iuds, free nexplanon

“real parents”

V weird to call it blinders when it’s in the best interest of the kid.

Shouldn’t all parents be in a place of a lot of privilege before deciding to have or raise a child though?

Missing from this whole piece is what a gift adoption can be to a feminist woman who doesn’t want to do the labor of birthing and raising a newborn. This eliminates so much labor from a relationship that is always pushed on the woman (sometimes for practical reasons, largely for patriarchal reasons). It makes…

well his argument is that it would save the military money they could spend on other military things. i think this has been debunked several places, so that’s the argument to make.