Spot on. The way she describes him reminds me of my narcissistic & emotionally abusive ex so much.

The way she described Ben reminds me of many women’s relationship with narcissistic men (I know that n word is thrown around a lot, but I think it’s an epidemic in this culture.) Reaaaally trying to avoid ever being with anyone who is Brilliant And Generous And Charismatic but makes me feel small. Big people should…

There’s a difference between Filibustering confirmation of an actual nominee you are opposed to and refusing to participate in your duty prior to a nominee being set forth. And stop saying “dear”, it’s fucking creepy.

I have to remind myself Sarch Michelle Geller is not Buffy.

To each their own music taste, but I cannot for the life of me understand the hype this album has gotten. It doesn’t feel sexy or slow-burning or hypnotic to me; it just sounds like the mess that results from too many bad song ideas and crap producers muddling about. The video is fun, but I’d rather listen to just…

Who has to fuck the goat?

For instance, someone at risk for diabetes might receive an email suggesting they start a fitness regimen.

HBD

The Puritan Backroom is also the name of my Salem Witch Hunt-themed gay sex dungeon.

We talk about these things. I have documents but I have friends and family who don't. I already told people I would take their American citizen kids if they are deported. Some kids end up being sent to Mexico by relatives and friends but yeah, basically WE take care of it, ICE shows up, takes the people and could not…

I married an American citizen and it took me4 years to get my citizenship even though I had already a PhD and we married for love and had a huge wedding so no need for you guys to make it hard for me. But you did because you enjoy it or something. In the meanwhile I paid taxes the other 10 years I was here. You have…

Yes kind of how I’m American by birth, but my once undocumented parents are not. My father is just this year eligible for citizenship after 5 years of residency and 25 years of being here “illegally”. Her reality was my daily nightmare until about 10 years ago when my parents gained protected status.

YOU GUYS YOU GUYS

Plus, it was an ATTEMPTED right number. This person is apparently having a very bad run of luck.

There is one thing and one thing only to do: You accept that you can’t control his behavior, and stop arguing with him about it. This is like trying to teach a pig to sing.

So I got a text from an unknown (to me) 917-area code number at 5.40AM today. “Catastrophic attempt at a colonoscopy yesterday. Will email details.”

holy fuck there is a NINETY SECOND COMMERCIAL!!!!

I’m so bummed that there’s no story on Jez yet about the Dem caucus in Iowa. Instead it’s celebrity gossip headlines.

To me, that means having a lot of space in the relationship. It means there is not the expectation that I will see the person daily or plan my weekends around seeing him, or be his primary go-to validation person, or to be available for him whenever I am not doing anything else, etc. I come from a land where serious…

"not living together" and "not spending much time together" are two completely different things. i think seeing each other a few times a week, whether it's going out or staying in (especially if it results in one staying the night), is perfectly reasonable, especially when we're both individuals with careers and lives…