Agreed. I’m all for giving people time to be hurt, but if they’re still bringing it up as a “win any argument for free” card a year and a half down the road, then they’re just using you as an emotional punching bag.

Currently in the “punching bag” stage now. This is my first time on the “cheater” side of the situation after having been cheated on in two different relationships. From what I’ve seen, there is definitely a perceived difference when it’s the man vs the woman that did the cheating. When my fiance cheated on me, it…