I can't find it in my heart to hate her. She seems smart and earnest. Sure, she's a little twee but it works for her and doesn't distract from her talent. She writes her own songs, she seems to genuinely care about her fans and she gets a lot of unfair blow back for being a "serial dater" which she handles with a lot…

Nah, I could have written a similarly clueless letter in my first marriage. Note - I was 22 when I got married and had no kids. After much therapy and self examination, I left the marriage (along with the alpha/beta societal expectation bullshit) and am much happier now.

Yes! I had the same question!! In both romantic and non-romantic relationships, I like people who are comfortable pushing back against my somewhat strong-willed personality. This has nothing to do with gender roles - I am an equal opportunity trampler - but I definitely know I could never marry someone who I could…

I think that the way the LW describes her situation is problematic, but sometimes "wearing the pants" just means that you're the one that has to make every decision, and that's exhausting.

What i want to know, is how the fuck did she get as far as marrying him if she doesn't like his inherent personality?

This woman needs to lose custody of her minor children. No joke, no exaggeration.

Aw, I find it sweet in a way, very child-like. There's something kind of touching about people who bite their nails, revealing a certain frailty... Maybe I'm projecting.

I wasn't capable of handling your thoughts on Donnie Wahlberg's penis at that particular time.

Scrub supreme Justin Bieber was hanging out the passenger side of his best friend's ride, trying to holler at a model.

Jenny McCarthy's 12-year old son must be so embarrassed all the time.

I would argue that this is exactly why you should live with your partner before getting married - so that you understand what you're getting into.

"'How could I have married someone who's so bad with money?' 'Why did I marry someone who I can't rely on to attend family functions with me?' 'What possessed me to marry someone who is a habitual nose-picker?!?'"

Wave bye, bye!

The big guy is just like, "wtf is this?"

Squeeeeee! Golden puppies make my day. Our baby isn't a puppy anymore, but he's still a sweetheart.

@Smurfette's dropkick: lol sure... just commit these ideas to memory:

@Jason Fitzpatrick: Whoa, can you condense that? I'd hate to have to pull up this post while in bed.

@Jason Fitzpatrick: Best lifehack ever? Yes.

@Smurfette's dropkick: It's way easier to do one handed than two handed. Two handed is where you always go wrong.