Getting blocked by Trump has been one of my goals for awhile now.

I don’t think it’s a “white girlfriends” thing so much as a “thing for girls who think bachelorette parties are supposed to look like in the movies”, as I know latinas who have had planned itineraries with the requisite male stripper, etc.

I don’t think this is an instance of the racial background of the attendees. It’s an instance of some people are overbearing and anal in different groups of friends. I find it weird when anyone needs to throw that in there just because. That is your experience not mine or others, if people keep doing that when it…

Sorry I’m late to the party—when I had to call 911 on my abusive ex, the second question the cops asked me (after whether or not we had kids—thank god no!) was whether we had any pets. Evidently pet harm/murder is very common in DV situations. So messed up. Glad you’re okay!

Fuck Nancy, that’s rough. My high school girlfriend and I dated for about three years. The week that I left for the Army she fucked my childhood best friend then a week after that he died from a heroin overdose. Our relationship was kind of ambiguous due to my imminent prolonged absence. But still I harbored some poor…

JFC, I’m sorry. For everyone in this thread honestly.

I had an ex who would get into my house while I wasn’t home so that when I did get home, there he’d be just sitting on my couch waiting for me. Not to harm me, just wanted to talk. Still creepy, though.

I agree on your last point. I was happy with vague fuzzy recollections of my teen years, I am not enjoying some of the things being dredged up by reading these stories.

+1 for counseling\therapy. It can really help having someone objective to talk with.

I’ve had a fucking week. I started a new job Monday that I wasn’t very sure about and now after 5 days of cumbaya meetings that didn’t apply to my department I finally got hard info on my *actual* position and, shock shock shock, it’s every bit as gruelling emotionally as I’d suspected, and SURPRISE! none of the …

Happy three months, Catalina!

I celebrated my 37th birthday Wednsday. I feel about the same as I did at 36 but I got an early gift of infection. Being sick sucks, being sick during your birthday is double sucky.

My ex is insane, both in the literal and non-literal senses. He reached out to me yesterday after several years of not speaking to tell me that he has a mental disorder and that he is on medication. He also added claims that he was abused and assaulted. I do not plan on responding. I wish he would just leave me alone.

So I’m having a really hard time. We just learned My poor little doggie has cancer and had about 6 weeks left. We’ve been together for over a decade, through 5 states, two marriages, and 8 homes. I can’t imagine my life without her. I’ve had her my entire adult life and it’s like the end of an era. :(

I feel stupidly proud of my ingenious solution to my dog’s possessive issue of refusing to give back the ball he wants you to throw.

Aww that was a fun conversation, he was a good sport about it.

Sorry but this story is shit-stirring and mean.

“I sincerely don’t understand why so many D cup bras come with padding”

If you’re willing to spend the money and/or can get to a proper bra boutique, I can’t recommend Prima Donna and Chantelle enough. There will be a bit of sticker shock, but they are comfortable and will last for AGES if you hand wash.

Let’s see my dog had his remaining eye removed yesterday. Our 3 year old heat pump/AC unit took a dump two days ago and our tankless water heater died last night. It’s been a rough couple of days. It’s real hard to find someone to fix things on 4th of July weekend. Just finished the last episode of The Handmaid’s…