His therapist wants me in for a session eventually, which I have no problem with. I don’t know how he feels about the therapist or if he feels like he’s getting anything out of it, but I support whatever he wants to do there.

And we divide expenses like that very regularly. We are very open about finances, we know exactly what each other's paychecks total and we coordinate our bills and expenditures. Which makes it even more bewildering to me that he thinks he has the luxury of quitting a steady job. Lots of people work jobs they don't…

Thank you for your input, I’ve calmed down considerably from when I first wrote this out. We haven’t talked about how he made me feel, but I do notice his mood had lightened up considerably and he’s been rather pleasant to be around which I miss. He has an in to a full time dishwashing job, which he says he would…

Don’t feel guilty about what they have to do if you quit, that's not your problem. If you're certain you're done there, I'd say make your preparations to quit.

Don’t be part of all this hiding around. She’s deliberately deceiving her family to carry on this relationship with you, I think it’s fair to say this is becoming an emotional affair.

That Buster cat is absolutely adorable!

Honestly? Jem and the Hollograms and Star Trek TNG. That's pretty much been my week.

Oh wow, now I dislike potlucks too and realize I've been far too trusting in the past.

Hmmmm, you make me want chocolate ice cream real bad...

Moving is hell, but so worth it when it's over. Congrats on a new chapter!

Living alone is awesome!

I’m so sorry. We never get enough time with them. I'm sure your pup was well loved and they knew and felt it the whole time you were together

I’m having a legit relationship crisis right now. My boyfriend of almost two years and I have lived together for over a year. (Gay dudes) I make more money and have shouldered most of the financial burden in our household (ie: I’ve paid all the rent and most of the bills) That’s not to say I make a ton of money, and…

Ugh, and of course none of that matters or makes sense. Basically boils down to "Shut up we like it."

Huh, that's an angle I never thought of. Doesn't address the actual issue at all, but gives them enough to yell about. Brilliant.

Now it's 6 gerbils? This is like the ultimate game of telephone.

Exactly. The problem isn't her choosing him, it's him choosing her. The adult in this situation has to be the one to say no.

I don't want to sift through a bunch of racist greys in the older post, but can someone maybe give me the gist of how people defend the Redskins logo but condemn the Caucasians shirt? I'm sure some gymnastics occurred...

If nothing else, start flossing. Everyone you're around with thank you. Get a water flosser, that's what got me back into the flossing habit.

It will run one season, everyone gets their check, and this whole Roseanne revival fiasco will become a footnote in TV history.