I’m one who gets migraines from smells, but they have to be really strong. Someone wearing a normal amount of perfume is a non issue and I side eye those who say otherwise ( as my migraines are very severe). All that said, it’s my problem and no one else’s. The receptionist should have taken her damn meds and shut the…

Reread your first comment. The words “patient poc friends to explain and show you” are right there. Didn’t pull it out of my ass. You keep saying it’s not their job, but then going on to say that it’s needed. This whole thread has been you insisting they *should* help because white people don’t care. Sure as hell…

If you are going to be in the Orlando area I can give you insider info. If not you're out of luck lol

Now you are coming across like they aren’t speaking up and demanding change, which is  pretty fucked up too. It’s not like they have thrown up their hands have given up. They've been pushing for change since we dragged them here kicking and screaming on slave ships. In every way they can. They don't have to be…

I didn’t mean to imply it was as simple as that. I apologize if that’s how it came across. My reply was only in reference to why white some white ask poc about racism, which I'm sure you already knew. Again I apologize. I wasn't trying to minimize anything.

You’re still putting this on poc to fix what white people fucked up by expecting them to hold our hands. Yes, sometimes in life you.gotta do shit that isn't your job. This isn't it for them. Do you really think they haven't been trying this whole damn time anyway? Are you kidding? Please just stop. This isn't fucking…

Have fun while you are here!! 

Not wanting to see what’s right in front of us and expecting people of color to feed us bullshit to make us feel better about it.

Im bordering on default but for different reasons. I had an accident that left me disabled. Social security keeps fucking me over while I continue jumping through their hoops. If I can ever get approved my loans will be forgiven, but until then they stay. I can't afford them right now with my medical bills. Those are…

Please tell me you're kidding... 

You're counting in buying food? I wouldn't. Kiss that grocery budget goodbye. 

It was insane. I met one of my good friends on that site and she was called horrible shit all the time because she was a black woman who called out racism and spoke out. Same type of shit that gets spewed here in the greys. She didn’t know about this site so I sent her the link a while back. She would get threats in…

Sorry not sorry. It’s not pocs job to teach white people to pull our heads out of our own asses and for you to suggest it is is pretty fucked up. I’m one of those people that grew up in a very sheltered very white environment. It’s not like it’s not everywhere out in the fucking open dude. White people don’t have to…

I used to hang out on cafemom forums before that shut down and they had individual groups for black mom's, Hispanic mom's etc. The white women constantly went ape shit over the black mom group even though it was an open group run by the site (users could also create groups) that anyone could join. They'd whine and…

Also no don’t need patient poc friends to point it out. Just need to not be a twat.

She didn’t say personally give it up. She said acknowledge we have it. You are correct that as individuals we can’t necessarily “give it up”, but we can acknowledge it, and call out the wrongs we see, and for the love of fuck not do what this lady in the article did.

What the actual fuck..... I'd be willing to bet money this fucker keeps his job too. 

Dont even get me started on the cops that have punisher shit. That makes me see red. 

Same. My suspicion is people are too afraid to run against him and that’s why he has run unopposed for so long despite being such a corrupt mofo. That and it being so conservative. He will not allow body cams despite the huge issues of excessive force. He needs to go. He scares the piss out of me. This county is…

Lakeland police have a history of excessive force. Calling them on a black child like this should not have happened. It could have ended soooo much worse.