I feel for what you’re going through. I *love* my father in law and his wife to death, but my mother in law is just a nightmare of a person. She’s been self-medicating a phantom mental illness for 20 years (Doctor-shops psychiatrists to get various prescriptions and then makes her own cocktails) and is a raging…

Same. My daughter still has a month to go in the oven, and I’m already trying to figure out how to keep her at home for college without stifling her independence or afford a private women’s college. My husband doesn’t know that I was raped twice on the same SUNY campus and thinks I’m just overreacting to a hotbutton…