Mom.... If you were in a German “scheisse” video, you... you’d tell me, right?

Don’t you just hate it when people use really gross names for genitals (usually female) and sex that sounds either degrading or gross? I’d never sleep with someone that called a labia “roast beef curtains” :(.

Hey now, while we’re all sitting around slut shaming this woman let me ask you this: You have absolutely no shade to throw at any of the dudes? I mean, its not as if this woman had 25 dicks to stick in herself. It (apparently)takes 26 to tango and she had 25 other willing & presumably condom-less participants.

I agree, I know someone who works at the Mirror I will ask her tomorrow if she knows if it is real or not. Just know she is going to be getting hell for it off anyone who knows which sucks as obviously BroBible would build a statue for a dude who fucked 25 women in a night.

remember: we are supposed to hate our bodies, especially the sexy bits. otherwise, how does patriarchy?

Good lord, thank you. Even if this was all consensual and cool by all parties- now that she’s pregnant and reality set it? Time to blame her. Because you know, our bodies shut it down if we don’t want it.

is anyone else beyond repulsed at this whole “roast beef” (or meat, for that matter) curtains reference? The visual is so horrifying. there’s almost even an olfactory recoil, if that makes any sense, like while you’re imagining how it looks you’re also catching a phantom miasma. How did this become a “thing”? also,…

She might not have failed to use a condom, birth control fails. Hopefully she used one.

Gotta love how all the judgment is thrown that the woman, and not at any of the 25 dudes who had sex with her, presumably quite well aware of what was going on.

“A woman’s life after rape almost always is the same as death..”

[citation needed]

If your daughters know this they will make sure you never know anything to protect you. I know how you feel, but keep the macho speeches in check around them if you really want what’s best.

No. Do not do that. Do not ever threaten to do that. I was raped when I was younger, and I was afraid to tell my father because I knew he would want to do something like that. I was so afraid of what would happen, so I never told him. So, please, if something should ever happen to one of your daughters, make sure you…

Just a note: the bystander effect is not “the belief that someone else will take care of it.” It’s a mental barrier that forms when witnessing something traumatic in large groups, and it happens when people see something and wonder “Well why is no one else doing something? This is bad, but no one is doing anything, so…

They could...oh you know...CALL THE COPS. You don’t have to interject yourself into a situation to help someone.

My ex went from a woman older than him to women his own age to me, 8 years younger, and from what I can tell has just been getting younger since then. It’s a way to avoid having to actually grow up and be an emotionally mature, responsible partner. 22 year olds are a lot less likely to call you on your shit and have…

No, because they are safely on the other side of it. Of course they feel like their life was enriched by it in some way because they now have their amazing boyfriend/husband. The rejection was a stepping stone on the way to Living Their Best Life, not the final nail in their love life’s coffin.

No, she doesn’t, anymore than early-40s guys need to open their window. She’s got her preferences, and she’s good with her preferences. She doesn’t owe guys in their late 40s dates. Besides, they aren’t interested. They are chasing the 25-35 yr old women.

Yeah, I’m stuck up and incapable of compromise, I just don’t see how that makes me “damaged.” :)

This article was a little too ‘Californian cult of the self’ for my tastes. Getting rejected is neither inherently good nor bad. It’s just something that many people have to deal with if they feel like getting into relationships.

Getting painfully rejected is not good. It’s just not. Neither are the “lessons” you try to tell yourself you’ve learned by being rejected, like how you’re an insane idiot. (That’s a lesson I taught myself.)