I’ve worked with multiple men who block their calendars and ask not to be scheduled for meetings before 10AM or after 4PM. I’ve never even once encountered a woman coworker who would dare to try that.

Co-signed. My most hurtful sexual harassment experiences were being called a dog, asked why my nose is so ugly, and other such things from men who felt entitled to inform me that I lacked value because they didn’t find me attractive.

I had an amazing time in Amsterdam without weed. The Anne Frank museum was impactful, we walked all over the city and admired the canals and architecture. Had great food and enjoyed regular bars. There are plenty of places in the US to do pot tourism if you want to!

I’ve been telling everyone about this number! “We saw that article in the Atlantic. And then we peed on the Atlantic.” BAHAHAHA

This is incredible and I hope the women who signed the petition don’t let up the pressure.

I guess we’re among the few! I’ve often wondered how long it would take for anyone to notice if I died at home. Two weeks? A month? Long enough for my cat to destroy my remains.

This is also such a clear example of what women have to deal with when harassed: either we quit and lose out on career and salary growth opportunities or we suck it up and deal with the creeps every day while our emotional health and energy suffers.

The brand is Current Air, out of LA. I got it at this boutique:

Meanwhile I missed my connecting flight out of Boston because some asshole security person had to paw through every bit of my carry-on to locate a sealed jar of caramel that was “hmmm is this a liquid or a solid?” I told him to just keep it but by then I already missed my flight.

He was probably afraid of the audience boo’ing him.

Not the best pic and sorry it’s sideways!

I’m trying to attach a pic but Kinja...it’s not even a provocative sweater, just...fringey...

And I had one alcoholic drink so I must have been asking for it!

I have maybe the only anecdote of when a man’s hand could accidentally go up a woman’s shirt:

More title suggestions for his memoir/screenplay:

In junior high I sat behind a kid who told me about making out with a girl in our class. He said it wasn’t great because “you want them to struggle a bit” but she just let him take her shirt off and stuck her boobs out like she was proud of them.

I’m screenshotting this Tumblr and saving it to my desktop to remind myself not to beat myself up about internalized/unconscious bias, but to actively work to rise above it.

I’m so sorry you have to deal with this. In case this is helpful at all:

Thank you for this!!

I’ll add my condolences for the comment section as well. This stuff is triggering to many of us who have experienced harassment and assault. Kudo’s to those who are able to speak up and compassion for those who don’t want to be re-traumatized.