YOU can take responsibility by ASKING the woman if it is ok to kiss her, to touch her, and how far she wants it to go.

I’m so disappointed in the comments slamming Grace. Ansari’s behavior doesn’t sound criminal but it does sound immoral. Badgering a woman until she consents is wrong and damaging. This behavior should be called out and condemned.

(Man does X that hurts me)

I hate owning 3 sizes of jeans, pants and shirts and but I gain and lose weight so easily. I look ridiculous in baggy and super-fitted clothes so sadly I can’t take Rihanna’s advice.

Yep, I’m in my 40's and just this last weekend I was out dancing with a guy friend when a slightly older man WAITED FOR ME OUTSIDE THE WOMEN’S RESTROOM to ask me if I was with my boyfriend because he wanted to tell me he thinks I’m pretty and to know if he could ask me to dance. Beyond being pissed off that he thinks…

I wish this story got more press but it seems to be overshadowed by the Golden Globes.

I’m so sorry. Petloss.com helped me when I lost my cat after a long battle with lymphoma. Every Monday they have a virtual candle ceremony that gave me a formal way to grieve

I searched online and at all the fancy makeup places for a cool-toned eyeshadow palette and ended up finding this L.A. Colors one for less than $3 at a drugstore:

OMG somebody please interview Eddie Murphy for his take on Goop copying this:

Your comments up and down this post have me shouting “yes, this!” I almost gave up on this article because it’s painful and too familiar but am so glad I stuck around for your comments.

Stay at the Mayflower Park Hotel to be in walking distance/easy Uber to a lot of attractions. Have brunch at the hotel’s Andaluca restaurant for great food and a well worn but refined atmosphere. Walk around downtown and towards Pike Place to shop and get an inexpensive lunch at Beecher’s. Then take an Uber to…

This is giving me flashbacks of the time I was shopping at Macy’s with my (now ex)bf and tuned out to the fact I was carrying a shirt in one hand. We got almost to the exit before I noticed. I have an unnatural fear of getting in trouble and my heart still races when I think about how close I came to accidentally…

Yes yes yes, Adam running down the street and through the subway to help Hannah when she really needed it is in my top 3 of all time romantic scenes.

He enunciates!

Out of all the crap things they did, the one that makes me the maddest is that they sabotaged her career.

I want to see more posts about the things women do to try to not be harmed. I only wear skirts or high heels when I’m in a group. When I’m alone I scowl to look unapproachable. I’d love for men to consider what it’s like to choose what to wear and how to behave in public based on not wanting to be harassed or…

Shandi is my #1 and I was so bummed that she didn’t keep modeling.

She’s a hero for continuing to demand justice. I want to vomit just reading about Hodgman and the church’s statements and imagine what she must experience every time she thinks about it.

I haven’t tried ColourPop - thanks for the tip!

The family members I see at holidays are fine, but they do not at all understand what it’s like to struggle with PTSD and anxiety. After years of trying different things, deflecting and sticking with the “everything is great” script has worked best for me (along with anxiety meds and sleeping pills). It’s exhausting…