They may have had great passwords. The hacker may have used software that can crack passwords.

There's also a certain amount of risk to using email. People can forward emails you thought were private, or hack into your account and disseminate them. If we don't want our embarrassing emails to be made public, we really shouldn't use email.

I get that creepers are a thing on dating sites, but when I see things like this it makes me think she should just deactivate her account and step away from the computer for a while. Yeesh.

It's even more disturbing to think that the National Review employs a douchenozzle who has the critical thinking skills and paranoia level of your average basement dweller on 4chan.

Yes. But if you do, you're a paranoid feminazi man-hater.

Cue the assholes coming in here, telling us she should have known better than to trust him. (I've seen that in the comments when it was a husband spreading nude pictures of the wife he was still married to. So.)

I'm sure there's a fetish/thing for watching porn of unsuspecting and/or unwilling women. It's like creepshots on steroids or something.

I loved that show, but I'm with ya on the fourth season.

I'm curious to see if we will get a round of "you should have known betters" from the peanut gallery. I'm willing to bet these same assholes were the ones gloating that JLaw and the other actresses should have known better and had it coming.

This idiot is an obvious, and not particularly skilled, troll. Don't give him the attention he sorely craves and cannot get.

Considering they're harassing and doxxing Zoe Quinn over this non-issue, I think commenting on their lack of perspective is appropriate.

Ferguson's on lockdown, ISIS is terrorizing Iraq and Syria, people in North Korea and China are thrown into prison for expressing a mildly opposing opinion. . .I could go on.

I'm going to say this: If a guy I married hit on or engaged in consensual sexytimes with someone else, I'd dump his ass because he would be cheating on me. If a guy I married assaulted a woman (which is what groping and trying to force her to drink basically is), I'd tie him up, roll him in honey, and leave him near a…

Also? George Sodhini and Elliot Roger didn't have girlfriends, and used that as the excuse to kill. I heard people bemoaning the fact that they were lonely and rejected by women (even though Sodhini thought his pushing-50 ass was entitled to 19-year-old hotties) as the reason they killed.

Or it could have been a sister. Or a cousin. Or a friend.

Had you bothered to read my reply—and the replies of others—you wouldn't have rehashed the so-called advice that is useless. You would have seen women who pointed out that calling for help has done no good, that when you are a woman getting groped people act like you're generating drama when you call for help. Your…

Right. Except calling for help often gets you no help, and when you're doing that in response to being groped, people act like you're generating drama. And in case you're wondering, why yes, I do know from experience.

Do you realize that when I've been groped and assaulted, or harassed and catcalled, I've been told after the fact that I should have used my words and stood up for myself? That I should have "just kicked him in the balls" since that is supposedly the magical remedy for manly assault?

We cannot win. We are either too…

I'm with you. We're not the ones committing the crimes, we're the traditional target. Why are WE under defacto house arrest?

And the thing is, I have heard both. "Why don't you stand up for yourself?? Stop being such a victim!!" Or "Oh, well, why did you make a big deal out of it? You just antagonized him."