It's not anymore. It depends on what type of place you work. If it is a cocktail oriented bar, or a steakhouse they should know it. Divebar bartenders and beer bars places probably won't. We know the things generally that are useful to us. I work in a young beer and cheap drinks kind of bar. I can make you a red…

I do not understand why this is absolutely so gross for people. It's just normal to wrap up your tampon and throw it away. I think the floor being covered in poo water from the pipes being clogged by these "horrid" tampons would be much grosser. Though funny enough all this makes me think of is that dude pulling the…

I work as a server and in this instance I think you have full right to complain, and get something to replace it. If I was working I would have been mortified the kitchen didn't tell me, and would have insisted my manager do something to fix it.

I understand it. People drive you mad enough it will make you want to pull some kind of prank as revenge. It is just a lesson though. If you want to be a shitty human being at a restaurant than pay in cash. I doubt he planned to do anything, and especially not stalk her house, but would a harshly worded letter telling…

I grew up as an atheist in the South and people would always ask me if I didn't believe and God and the bible then how did I know what was right and wrong, or how did I know murder was wrong. It was always kind of duh it's wrong I don't need a book to tell me that.

I never want to attend Coachella but this article forgets there are different types of festivals. I go to regional burner festivals every year where it is a great experience and we get people of all different ages. My parents still attend the music festival Shakori music festival in NC. They used to take me to Black…

This makes me feel really great about my bf. He actually does need magnums, he tips really well (I'm a bartender so I would kill him if he left a bad tip, plus we go to bars where they know me and give us free drinks), we watch porn together or he tells me about what he watched, he's not oddly silent during sex,and he…

My bar had a regular for a while we called "booth guy". He'd bring a different girl each time, be rude, spend lots of money, and leave no tip. We just purposely started ignoring his table and giving him horrible service (since it's a bar/restaurant you need a lot of service to make sure people always have all the…

Managers usually will just let the customer have what they want because otherwise they will go and badmouth the place.

Almost no one sells jeans in Longs anymore. I used to always go to Express, but now they have gotten rid of them in store, and have almost no longs online. I finally found that Gap is the place for tall people. It really angers me when I go in a store and see %50 short %50 regular but they don't even carry tall. I…

The average age girls enter prostitution in the USA is 13. Most girls enter between 12 and 14 and a great deal are run aways. Many get taken in by pimps, but many times the pimps convince the girl that they are in a relationship, and the girl should sell herself if she truly loves him. Pimps prey on young girls with…

As someone who has worked as a sitter and nanny in NYC I can understand her price. You can actually find someone cheaper when you have older children, but babies you generally want someone who has experience with baby care and experience costs money. I currently watch a 1 year old and charge $16 an hour, but am…

No means no unless you have made an agreement ahead of time that it doesn't and have come up with a proper safe word that means no stop. That is the only case that no does not mean no. This judge is absolutely ridiculous. I doubt if he was raped by a man and was screaming no that his logic for this would make sense.

I think it's unfair to come up with these ideas that every show needs to have diversity for diversity sake. It should be first and foremost about the story. While diversity is a great thing in television I don't think that having a token poc just so you can say that you have them is much better. I hate the show Girls,…

It's funny but my mom kept her name and she's never had a problem in all her years of marriage. I've never heard her mention it. It's also never been a problem having a different last name than her kids either. And she did this when keeping your name wasn't quite as common. I'm just intrigued, what problems did you…

My boyfriend comes over and cleans my apartment because he enjoys it. I keep things for him to clean for me. I organize myself though because I know where everything goes. I understand that I am really lucky.

I think it's too simple to say that all people in those industries don't want to to be objectified. I'm sure there are actually a good amount who enjoy being objectified, and there are probably a good amount of people who put up with it. When I used to perform with hula hoops in a bikini in a night club there were…

You don't have to feel sorry for her, but people on the internet need to remember that harassment and threats are never the answer. Thinking that is an okay response to a young girl's very very stupid and hurtful actions is the kind of thinking that leads to terrorism in the first place. These people's threats are…

I was taught it was the four F's. French, Feel, Finger, Fuck

I'm always the gatekeeper of commitment even as a woman. I always end up with the guys who tell they really want to be with me, and I just need time to make sure I am completely in before I give them that commitment. It's not really intentional but it is nice to be on the other side of it.