I thought totally gay? I’m not exactly sure why a twenty-something pop star in 2016 needs to be in the closet, but that was my understanding. Don’t ask me where I got this, though, it’s one of those things I’ve absorbed as if by osmosis.

um, this is the ivy league, they are lucky to field a sports team at all

Yes, because an NCAA university like Yale expells their star player based off of rumor. Is this the hill you really want to die on?

Men + feelings = acting out. bell hooks says it’s because men are conditioned not to show emotion (thank you Protestant repression!). This leads them unable to handle situations where their feelings are up in a knot. Modern men are essentially emotionally underdeveloped.

Men are by far the more insecure of the sexes. I always wondered how women cope with the straight men but then I realize the gay mans have similar problems.

That's just male projection. I remember my dad used to say that men don't use make-up. Someone tells these straight boys beating their mugs.

And this was just in dear prudence today: http://www.slate.com/articles/life/…

Don’t worry, MRA’s will just spend an hour of research to find the one time, out of a million, that a woman did this to a man. Poof, and just like that, the problem doesn’t exist!

We shouldn’t compare men to dogs; dogs listen, men don’t.

UH-BU-BU-BU-BUT MY DELICATE WIDDLE EGO IS JUST AS IMPORTANT AS YOUR LIIIIIIIIFE UH-BLUH-BLUH-BLUH

Isn’t it fascinating that a piece about the sexual harassment women face at work makes these men go, “But what about my dating options!” instead of feeling sympathy for their female coworkers?

But all women just want marriage and babies and are always hungry for male attention! Those ungrateful bitches should be flattered!

I second this. I knew a nerdy, socially challenged guy who announced one day that in our very (irritatingly) touchy friend group, he was going to ask people if they wanted hugs first, since he struggled to read people’s body language. The “normal” creepy dudes who forced hugs on you and got pissy when you refused gave…

I’m a dev at a great company now making twice as much and recently sent them a detailed message with screenshots of everything broken on their latest site release. XD It was awesome.

Yeah, it’s like the army thing. “If we hire women, they will get harassed!” translates to “don’t hire women,” rather than “don’t condone a culture of sexual harassment.”

I’ve said it before I’ll say it again, men can control their emotions if they want to, they just think they are entitled to do what they want.

SERIOUSLY. I have always been baffled by the stereotype that women are emotional at work, when my observation since my teens has been that if anyone is, it’s men. They just somehow don’t get criticized for it. The hell is up with that?

Oh my god the comments! I don’t understand why so many men are unwilling to listen to women’s perspectives. It’s one defensive comment after another. Guys bitching about how they just want to ask women out while women share stories about how they’ve been harassed.

Male entitlement. This is the sense that their superior achievements in their field entitle them to female attention and or bodies. Seen wholly as a power move, it also allows them to co opt female colleagues work to their own agendas. The female colleagues or students superior achievements somehow do not entitle the…

Nah, some guy on here a couple weeks ago told me that doesn’t happen, so...