Abstaining from sex with clients is a solid idea for most everyone, except where it’s specifically in the job description.

Have you had your sarcasm detector calibrated recently? If so, they messed up.

He was employed by an NBA team. I’m pretty sure they have mandatory seminars on how to cheat and get away with it.

Still...phew, could not do that.

Wait until your husband repeatedly cheats on you without protection and then come talk to me about how much integrity you’ll have, ladies. This man risked her life. He could have passed on serious sexually transmitted diseases which could kill or or render her unable to have children because she wouldn’t know (being…

Helping the ex find dudes??? Whoa. That’s going...quite far, so soon after the end of the relationship.

Who has the time to be married AND fuck 20 people on the side? Seriously, I need to ask them some time management questions.

Well, some of them are extraneous, so...

Who has time for 20 mistresses?

“I would like to have kids, but life realities just aren’t making that realistic”

Think this is true for *so many people*. Seems there just have to be some ways, as a culture/society to shift this (as people mentioned elsewhere in the thread), helping everyone in the long run.

This will be me, because while I want kids *someday* I’m currently a “selfish” witch woman who has way too much fun drinking whenever I want, spending my money on whatever I want, having whatever relationships I want, and generally doing whatever I want to pop out a kid and change my whole life up.

I get the feeling that the only person who can “afford” to have a happy, healthy pregnancy with little stress as a young woman (under 25) anymore is a young woman who marries either a. an independently wealthy husband or b. an older, more established husband and is a SAHM. In my social circle, that’s been what I’ve…

I’m really sorry you’re going through all this, but I think it’s crazy to tell women have have babies by age 30. I didn’t even get married until I was 31, what should I have done, popped out a baby at 22 with some random guy I had no feelings or connection with and then been a single mom while finishing college/going…

It’s great that you know what you want and don’t. I was 33 three years ago, and I kept googling “how do I know I want children.” Ambivalence is so much worse than knowing one way or another. Friends told me “well, if you feel ambivalent, it’s a sign you shouldn’t have one.” That turned out to be wrong, because, now…

Yeah cause god forbid we have comprehensive policies like universal daycare, parental leave, social and community support systems ect. to try to bridge this gap on a societal level. That would just be craaaaazy!

There really is such an unfortunate disconnect, between career/life realitites and the chronological/biology realities.

Yet, like with anything else, people scramble and try to negotiate the best balance between the two that works for them as an *individual*.

I cannot remember which magazine talked about how the Birkin was made, either Vogue/Harper’s/Elle but they did an article back in the late 1980's about how the leather used for the handbags came from calves who were raised in a padded cage. Devoid of contact from it’s mother and stuck in a square box for nearly all…

Forgot Birkins, merkins are the real best investment.

Apparently turning a 9 and an 11 year old into slaves will get you less years in jail than smoking marijuana

Only seven years? Bullshit.