This is hilarious. Its also really funny to see some of the commenters be SO OFFENDED by a small gesture that this girl probably did on a whim, after having to oh and aw over engagement rings all night.

You said it, but you still managed to project an entire type on her in the photograph. "I know a lot like her" is a simple rhetorical move that sets up a comparison.

Poor girlfriend is probably thinking, "Just as I'm making headway in paying down my student loans, now I'll be expected to buy stupid ugly bridesmaid dresses, shoes, shower and wedding gifts, and probably travel costs to at least one fucking destination wedding. Not enough sauvignon blanc in the world to get through…

I'm there with her. When I was 14 I had a brief fling with a guy who was 22. I had crushed on him afar for a long time (he worked at a local establishment I frequented) and then one night we ended up talking, the next night we ended up kissing, and the following night I got to second base for the first time. He was…

I think there are 2 issues here - the playing hard to get games that are still prevalent in dating (at least in the early stages, no one wants to tip their hand) and people who really do need A LOT of reassurance and validation. In my experience, those people don't go for partners who could actually provide the…

Welp, there i went looking at nude women at work. Thanks for not tagging NSFW.

Ms. Gibney wrote this article/narrative on Gawker that gives a little more detail to what happened, and is really excellent reading. The comments section...not so much.

Just add Tomlin!

Are you mad that she isn't doing more? If so, why didn't you ask her to do something extra?

really? As a fairly feminine lesbian, I've never had that problem. Sometimes lesbians won't read me as gay, but once they know I'm gay, we've generally gotten along quite well.....

Yeah, as a lesbian, I'm not exactly scream-crying in the corner about this.

I really hope everyone posts their own personal pubic grooming preferences, and their reasons for this preference. I need to update my spreadsheet.

Yes, exactly! To me these articles and discussions really undermine how important it is to discuss what you and your sex partner want from sex — I can't believe everyone is just jumping all over women who don't prioritize orgasms.

I find it really frustrating when people invalidate the idea that sex without orgasm can be genuinely enjoyable. The best sex I've ever had was orgasm-less. Some people actually just are more interested in intimacy and all that shit. Everyone is different.

I find the responses to this article both depressing and infuriating. An orgasm is not the blue ribbon of The Feminist Sex Experience (TM). Jesus fucking Christ, people. I thought we were feminists? I didn't think that this included making asinine statements about how women who don't prioritize orgasms during sex are…

I've just heard it so many times before—that I must be lying about my lived experiences of having a perfectly satisfying sex life for all 14 years since losing my virginity despite never really orgasming from sex. It bugs me.

Oh great, another article which makes women who can't orgasm at all - whether for physical, emotional, or medication-induced reasons - feel like they are inadequate.

Oh look another person who thinks my sex life is really secretly "frustrating and depressing" and I'm just kidding myself when I claim I am happy and satisfied. Surely I have never encountered one of you before! (eyeroll)

I was so distressed for so long because what I thought was my body finally starting to become physically aroused was the actual orgasm. I thought I was broken, unable to have this apparent greatest thing a human being can have. When I did find out all this time I was having orgasms, but they simply suck? Cue…

For the first time in my life, I'm dating a guy who legitimately doesn't care if he gets off. He's also, like many women, not committed to getting off every time. Which isn't to say we don't have great sex, we always do, but it's measured more in intimacy and general pleasure than how many orgasms you had. It's...…