Oof. I’m sorry.

More level headed? You seem so sensible, tell me the tales of the guys you’ve dated then! Pictures (for visual reference) are always appreciated.

I got a similarly insane quote for install from the contractor sent by Home Depot. We needed to pay like $1700 total (including $400some for water heater itself) to “get it up to code”. I pretty much said like, citation needed? The guys were rude af and pretty much said they didn't have to explain it to me. So, refund…

Happy Saturday, Jezzies. I hope everyone on the East Coast is staying warm. As a Bostonian, I am very glad to see other people getting lots of snow. I’m still traumatized from last winter. Although we do have some coming down now.

I actually love winter, and hate the holidays. I know, I know.

Because humour is my thing:

Gingivitis is just gingivitis. It doesn’t mean she has FIV, or anything else. That’s actually kinda ridiculous. There’s a blood test for all those viruses. She probably needs a teeth cleaning is all.

My dad died last weekend. It’s the actual worst.

Bears used to be a problem for our garden when we lived a bit more north, but my enemies now are the god damn squirrels! They stole every.single.apple. from our tree!And they would take a bite then throw it away. I even watched apples fall to the ground from a maple tree.

I am growing kitchen herbs in pots on the back porch cause I am sick of paying top dollah for herbs at the store that I cannot finish before they go slimy. I got a little grow light system for parsley and basil because both these have punked me numerous times by dying both inside and out. I have some good sized…

That’s creepy as fuck. Report that shit, stat.

I did but now I’m scared for retribution because DUDE KNOWS WHERE I FREAKING LIVE

Report that shit ASAP to the shuttle company. They should be able to know who your driver is and address it. That’s not okay... I’m sorry you had to deal with that. :(

Walk away.

Nope, not worth it. We should (ideally) be in relationships that enrich our lives and are rewarding. This relationship is neither of those. It seems you’re still her friend for old time’s sake, but the truth is that people change - and often go in opposite directions with these changes. So you’re carrying this fossil…

One of my cousins had a baby a few months ago with a bad heart. The doctors weren't sure about the baby's prognosis. They were able to do surgery and the baby was able to go home for a few months. The baby had to go back to the hospital and they weren’t sure what was wrong. Yesterday, the baby died. I can’t go back…

Hmm... honestly I think this friendship is not worth trying to salvage. If you wanted to give it one last shot, maybe you could tell her that you enjoy spending time with her in person, but her personality via text/online is different and not very kind. If she can’t change her behavior, cut her off. Don’t let guilt…

Don’t know what I’m eating, but I ain’t cooking.

Hey guys. I had a job interview at a place I want to work that would actually be working with a good friend. The job is stuff I’ve done before but has a lot of potential to use my creativity, which I haven’t been able to do in most of the jobs I’ve had. I’m hoping it went well but I should be hearing back in a few…