She shouldn’t “lower her standards” but she should make sure the standards she holds others to match the standards she lives up to. She wants a catch? She needs to be a catch! If she doesn’t want to become the catch she wants, she then needs to lower her standards....That goes for everyone. If I had super-model looks…

There is no “Wall”. Some people age well, some don’t. Please don’t project the self-hating “Wall” misogynist narrative on to everyone else. I don’t know your story but it is not me and it is not a lot of other people posting here either. If you believe that “The Wall” is the cause of your misery, it becomes an excuse…

But why should you have “hot” guys? You should be with men you are attracted to and who are attracted to you...but you need to have reasonable expectations of what you can attract. Why should everyone else lower their standards while you don’t do the same? If you find yourself shooting higher and you refuse to back…

Right? I don’t go for guys that are #10’s in the looks department because I am not a #10 in the looks department. I tend to find the guys I am with very attractive though, but we are on the same level, they find me attractive, its a match. I don’t have to stress about keeping up, they don’t have to stress about…

There are very subtle signs of class in there. The clothing colors and materials, not the synthetic loud look, no obvious logos, minimal design, lack of plastic toys littering the yard while the plastic toy they have is a 100% recycled and expensive one. It is quite interesting actually. The photo itself is taken in…

How about hugging the pole like a Tsunami might happen?

I am now sent down a rabbit hole of amazing engagement photos.

like this?

So much better than the newborn-fresh-from-the-womb slimey gray/purple thing they photograph. I actually don’t mind cute baby pictures once in a while and I am definitely not a baby-person and my friends seem to tolerate the dog-pictures I post so its a mutual understanding...but when they post their kid doing…

Oh I totally could see a “if kids are zombies there is no hope and that is so sad” vibe but my next thought is “kill themmmmm!!!!”

Same. I was like VALARYIAN STEEEEEELLLLL!

I assumed it was a daughter too because otherwise her strong emotion made no sense to me!

I was thinking the same thing.... Millenials are all younger than 34...

I just turned 33 and my boyfriend is early-50s. Even I know the age-gap is not standard, and while I think my boyfriend is quite hot...he damn well knows that he is lucky. I also feel less pressure to put SO much effort to maintain besides being active and eating healthy and taking a shower once in a while and never…

Whoever the Mc. dreamy guy is on Greys Anatomy, he sat next to me at an oyster bar when my boyfriend went to the bathroom. I never even noticed. At all. It was a mistake apparently. And I missed the entire part where my boyfriend kicked Mc Dreamy out of his chair. The guy was actually really nice though I guess?. That…

Hugo had been around a while but was bought by new owners a couple years ago and the quality of their food shot up 10-fold. Eventide opened next door probably 2 years ago? Really amazing everything and it is packed every time... Honey Paw opened up a couple weeks ago and the vibe as well as the food is seriously next…

Its really amazing food. I know that having an insider perspective is driving my bias but I know 2 out of the 3 guys well, as well as a few of the hard-working employees in all three restaurants...they really are loyal, amazing, warm people. It saddens me this happened. That being said, Hugos is hands-down the best.…

Ever After was a great movie you take that back! Your mouth is dumb!!

My parents reply was always “because we’re adults. When you’re an adult, you’ll get to decide what you want and won’t eat as well!”

That is a nightmare. I can not imagine. I have made two dresses for friends and I insist on payment not because I want money but because it sort of forces me to hold myself to a professional standard. I also am not a perfectionist and so I try not to make dresses for others because the amount of work that goes in…