That would be tricky to enforce in practice though. What if something accidental happens to the mistakenly-sent item like theft or damage? And once the customer opens the package and sees that it isn’t correct, they must now spend time, energy, and maybe money re-packing it to send it back. What if they’re disabled…

Keep doing the dishes as a treat so she feels “special” when you give her the loving gift of doing basic household chores? Are you serious?