Condolences to you. Very sorry for your loss, that sounds devastating. 

I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending you love

Kidlet has a job offer! The company that laid him off three months ago is hiring for a minimum six-month term, and they’ve asked him back. He’s agreed, although he’s hoping that the job he interviewed for earlier this week comes through before the start date late next month. In any case, one way or another, he’ll be…

I’m so very sorry for your loss. Please remember to take care of yourself amongst your grief. ❤️❤️❤️

I’m so, so, sorry about your Mom. Suicide prevention hotlines also offer support to those who have lost loved ones to suicide. Please consider contacting them. Whatever you need to do right now is ok. Sending you love.

This is Fatsas, my current cat-sitting client. He’s a purry chonk.

No helpful personal experience I’m afraid. Just sending lots of support. A day at a time is good, a minute at a time might be how it is for a while. One deep breath after another. Every feeling you feel is valid and appropriate.

(Emily, can you please ungrey me? I would really appreciate it!!)

~☆~ Pregnancy Thread! ~☆~

That bloody game made my train ride home a pain in the arse. I did get the joy of elbowing bros in Yankees gear to get to the carriage door, though.

I’m starting to wonder if I get seasonal-affective disorder in both the winter AND summer. It’s getting harder and harder to get out of bed, the weather makes outdoor activities pretty much unpalatable, and the stable but sporadic employment of the gig economy isn’t exactly helping, either. Just, ugh, on all fronts.

My friends have a mixed marriage (he’s a Sox fan, her the Yankees) and they had a bet on their first pregnancy. If it was a boy they’d dress him in Yankees gear, a girl BoSox.

Shelter Cat Update!

Ahem.

Happy Saturday everyone!

I’m supposed to be on the dreaded family holiday with (amongst others) the nightmare sister in law BUT I’m home alone, full of vegan chilli and cold cider because, after almost a year of applying for jobs, BABY HAS AN INTERVIEW!!!!!!!

I applied last minute for a job which looks FUCKING…

I have been in a relationship for a while but due to financial issues/needs not being met, We have decided that I am going to look into being a sugar baby. For now I’m on some websites and seeing if I meet someone who is right for me.

I got dumped a couple weeks ago. Last night, a friend encouraged me to just throw a profile up on okcupid. I did not even finish writing the first part of my bio (tomboyish lady seeks lovely femme) when I got a message from some dude, I quote “Hey bae, I want to taste your sweet pussa”.

This happened to me, too.  Guess we faked it a bit _too_ well!

Good thing prestigious judges, like, for instance this guy’s mentor, don’t have a history of sexually harassing their female clerks or anything...

I was going to say this. I know of a federal judge who hires lots of female clerks, always a majority female, and always based on attractiveness. Not to say those women aren’t deserving and accomplished but the judge doesn’t earn any feminist kudos for his approach to hiring...

I would consider these numbers an achievement if not for law professors Amy Chua and her husband Jay Rubenfeld telling female law students that those women had to look attractive because that’s what Kavanaugh valued in the hiring process.