As a feminist I feel like any decision regarding naming is fine as long as I consciously make it. So I am a Mrs, and that is fine. I would feel better if there were a male title that indicated he was married though. Meister? Misters?

We did it. Did it put some noses out of joint? Yes. His parents, conservative with a small c, found it baffling. Actual quote: “only criminals and transsexuals change their name.” My parents, radical (with a small r) feminists, thought it was amazing. It is still the best and most important decision we made about our…