Please, like anyone that has ever been in a Waffle House wasn’t already blacked out.

See you act disgusted, I for one was pleased to read that Waffle Hut employees occasionally bathe.

I found this other photo of the employees:

Do you think that maybe millions of women buy erotica in which a desirable man takes the protagonist by force (rapes) and she likes it, because maybe a lot of women fantasize about being taken by force by a desirable man. Is it really so confounding to you that some women would actually enjoy the experience in real…

But if I had you would not have been able to call a complete stranger names. Or rather you would have just trolled someone else so at least I saved someone else that.

Or women could just say no? I really don’t get this. There was no holding down, no physical or verbal threat. That’s horrible for people who have been in this situation and it is certainly traumatic, but at some point you have to take responsibility for your communication. Yes you may have said no earlier in the…

Like most terrible things in life, it’s mostly not your credentials that prevent them from happening to you. It’s mostly sheer chance. I’m glad this never happened to you, and it’s natural to try and dissect why, but I think it’s important for the sake of prevention and policy creation that we not draw any artificial…

That wasn’t me, that was the author. I don’t say “no” when I mean “yes,” and vice versa. What happened to me, and what created the gray area, was that I said and did nothing at all. So I can’t really speak to that mindset, although I agree generally that it is confusing for both men and women.

See, my issue with this is by your own admission that you have done this same act several times with the difference you wanted to engage in coitus with the man.. So you played coy in order to get them to negotiate around the “no”, so please explain how anyone is supposed to know when “no” means “no” vs. “no” means…

So you think that she revised her non-consensual encounter to “great”? I supposed Stockholm syndrome is still a pretty normal response for survivors.

You put “Our relationship ended” as the last sentence in that story for a reason: to imply that you ended it because of her supposedly backwards view on her own rape. Don’t backtrack now just because a lot of people are calling you a narcissistic jackass.

...wagina?

Welllll, i strongly prefer the term female for myself, over any terms with serious social implications like woman. Female is a biological descriptor. Woman has all sorts of other expectations attached to it, in my mind, like children and adulthood and responsibility.

woman? But my SO gets all huffy when I address her that way.

Seems like a dumb thing to let get under your skin, but whatever floats your boat I guess.

So you ended a friendship with this woman because she wouldn’t allow you to define whether or not she was raped?

I remember when Robert Palmer did this same thing to promote diversity in his band.

If the auto industry only produced what people needed, there’d be less than a dozen models of vehicles to choose from.

What I learned from this experience is simple: most pickup truck owners don’t care what they need. They care only what they want.

Well, she does have some right to frame her own experiences, no? I hope you didn’t break off the relationship based on this story alone.