because he’s an asshole he pretty likely hit her? that’s hilarious. thanks for reminding me why Im a criminal defense attorney.

Lauren Nostro works for Complex and all the other writers on Twitter who are friends with her (or work for her) have been bitter towards Ernest Baker for his success, I see it on Twitter everyday. The same complex/noisey/etc. writers circle jerking each other. I’ve seen plenty of bitter subliminal tweets towards him.…

I’d love to know what is misogynistic about what I wrote. The nerve of a black woman to defend a black man before the white mob has all the facts but has already started tying the ropes up the tree. this is why white feminism is such a fucking joke.

If you honestly feel in danger and restraint is the best chance you have, I say it’s ok. Not every guy has the weight advantage on his partner.

Reading the comments on this article will be interesting. Quite the conundrum for all the liberal gawker / Jezebel posters regarding whose side to take and or how best to demonstrate that they personally have the most white guilt. I’m going to get my poocorn outfit this one.

My dad (being an indo) dated a white girl, they’re still together after 50 years, however, writing a book named ‘How to date a white girl’reeks of male testosterone stupidity

Lauren nostro bullied me in middle school. Most of my memories are about trying to stay out of her way.

People who call women “wifey” are automatically, 100% in the wrong.

Oooohh Gawker and Jezebel get so conflicted when they have to choose to side between black people and white women.

There is no excuse to hit her, there is also no excuse for her to hit him.

So would you apply this advice to a women? Or just to dudes?

Play with fire. Get burned.

thank you, i was about to lose my mind.

how is he an abuser??? everyone on here has already presumed his guilt. i am genuinely confused. if she hit him first, why is he painted as the abuser, even if he was just trying to defend himself? or are all white women dainty flowers who pose no real threats to men, especially black (read: violent, strong) men? WTF…

Wow. I'm glad they're not together anymore. Damn.

I threatened to bleach his clothes with Tide if he did not leave the house.

I’m gonna go there. If you wanna make a life with someone who calls you a dumb white bitch, you just might be a dumb white bitch.

Wow. Two awful people being awful. Can they please slink back into obscurity as soon as humanly possible?

Oh y’all Jezebelians gonna have fun with this piece. Let me perch.

From both of their accounts of the events, it sounds like they deserve each other.