I don’t see how its different, as long as the person is agreeing to have sex with the person she’s fucking. If something about who the woman thought that person was turns out to be a lie (wealth/sex/race) then that is different from the person not physically/mentally being that person.

Your argument would make many transsexual relationships tricky. The gender switch can’t be part of the problem unless we take a hard and uncomfortable look at how we regulate transsexuals and any “required disclosure” about their status.

Just playing devil’s advocate, but the example you provided seems different to me. In your example, the woman is fucking a different person from who she thought she was fucking. Here, the woman is fucking the person she thinks she’s fucking...she’s just getting fucked by a dildo instead of an actual dick. As far as I…

Is this the same thing though? How is it different from anyone who lies for sex? Like, how often do people claim they’re single to sleep with someone and are then found to be married after the fact? Shitty yes, but illegal? People lie about all kinds of things in relationships actually- jobs, socioeconic status, etc.…

A law that permits people to retroactively rescind consent doesn’t actually cause people to take rape more seriously. If anything, it just bolsters rape culture and the idea that so much of what women claim to be rape was actually a case of her regretting it after the fact. “Rape by deception” is the socially…

This would NOT be illegal in the US. Rape by fraud here requires that you are asleep. Under your logic, if I had sex with a woman who I thought was white, and told me that she was white, and I later learned she was not white - she could be prosecuted for rape by fraud. Because I believed I was having sex with A when…

I don’t think its like that. The crime there isn’t that some rando fucked someone’s wife, like you put it, but that someone tricked someone into having sex when that person was thinking they were another particular person. This is more like having sex with someone while pretending to be a rich person. Someone might…

There are so many questions here that don’t know where to even start. So she never touched it? She never felt the strap? This is so weird.

Gayle must be quite the actress/salesperson to pull off this con.

I have the same thought. I mean, it’s clearly wrong and I feel like it should be illegal in some way... but I’m not sure it fits in the same realm as rape or sexual assault. Say a man has sex with a trans woman. Can he then turn around and say she tricked him because she’s “actually a man.” Can you really say “this is…

Now the question is, does this become a legal precedent for those who have engaged in sexual activity unknowingly with a transgender individual?

Honestly, the state of his penis is not even the first thing I would worry about when letting a complete stranger (it did say they met on the internet, didn’t it?) blindfold me. I mean, sure, it could be small/weird/rotting off. But that person could also a) strangle you, b) stab you, c) hit you, d) film you, e) rob…

It’s like that rape scene in Revenge of the Nerds, where the head-nerd wears the head-jock’s mask to fuck the head cheerleader.

Casual sex, though casual, should still involve at least as much care and discretion as meeting at a Starbucks when buying an iPhone from someone off of Craigslist.

I hear you - wait until you get to know the person before the blindfolds, manacles and restraints come out. (That is, if you’re into that sort of thing. If not, that’s cool, too.)

I am in awe of this woman’s trust level. Blindfolded on the first go round? NOPE. I’m going to need to see what you’re dealing with to make sure I still want you to give it to me.

See, that is what got me? No WAY IN HELL I am being blindfolded fro a hook up. NO WAY.

This whole thing is pretty shitty, but I don’t understand what the crimes are here. The victim thought she was having sex with a man, but it turns out it was a woman. Obviously unethical. But illegal?

I find these stories odd. The first time I hookup with someone I want to inspect the goods. I’m looking them over, making sure things are what they are supposed to be and the condition they are supposed to be in. There is NO way in hell I’d be wearing a blindfold on a first fuck.

Kye Fortune