You know you are right. I think it is more the emotional thing than the sex thing.

Thanks! You are helpful. I think we should do couples counseling. Maybe he needs a bit of an ultimatum?

Ah yeah I do not think I would have an affair. Tempting but seems so wrong. I just do not know how to make the decision to leave. It’s hard because I do not want to. I want my family. I just wish this part of it would be fixed. And it is so hard to find someone to relate too. None of my friends have this problem.

You know 10 or even 5 years ago I would have agreed with you, but when you have kids, it’s really hard to not want a stable life for them. Which is why I think people stay in terrible marriages. Even if it makes life harder on the kids. My parents divorced when I was 10 and it sucked. I agree they needed to do it and…

One is never too young to start collecting cats.

Okay guys. I need some advice. My husband won’t have sex with me anymore. we are mid 30s and have 2 kids. When I got pregnant with the 2nd 3 years ago he just stopped having sex with me when I was like 4 months along. We had absolutely no sex or any real physical contact for over a year. Things eventually got better…