Shit where was this guy when my daughter was screaming her head off for 3 months straight? Our only solution was strapping her to us in a carrier while bouncing on an exercise ball. For hours. Literally hours and hours and hours of bouncing. Try to get up & pee? Forget it. Maybe want to try not bouncing for a few…

My mom totally handed me off to a stranger on a plane once. I’d been screaming my head off, she was at her wits’ end, and a kindly old lady asked if she could try to calm me down. She still gets teary talking about how relieved she was.

Like usual? You clearly have zero understanding of rape culture or the experiences of rape victims.

Rape doesn’t happen because someone can’t get laid or something. It’s to establish power and dominance over the victim. I mean Jesus Christ, Ted Bundy was a decent looking guy and look what he did. Or Mike Tyson (you know, who’s a convicted rapist). You think Mike Tyson at the top of his game couldn’t get laid??

It's fairly common for women to continue to interact and even sleep with a rapist. Some women explain it as feeling that they have another chance to be in control and reframe the narrative. As a victim of both abuse and a woman who has done all her learning the hard way, I absolutely agree. I stayed with a man who…

A) Because she felt like it. Because seeing people praise the person who raped you fucking hurts, and if it happens enough times, you may hit a breaking point where you can’t stand not speaking out any longer. I don’t see what’s “generic” about that. I also don’t think she stated what happened to her particularly…

Yes, trolling every comment thread on this article sure does leave one with the impression that you don’t care. Nicely illustrated.

I’m a Gender fluid sex worker who has been in this work for about three years. I can say firmly that James Deen is NOT someone most ppl in the industry respect, and his constant self affirmed “feminism” has led a lot of people to question his shit

She’s accusing one of the most powerful people in a multi-billion dollar industry of a crime which is both deeply personally revealing and likely to alienate her from many of her friends?

So nice to see people in the industry supporting her and doing something about it, without forcing her to leap through hoops to prove something she shouldn’t be forced to relive. Very brave of her to come out and say something when she knows it will create nothing but a shitstorm with no gain for her.

Truly your heart is overflowing with the milk of human kindness.

I was truly open to hearing that which he had to say. My inclination was belief in Stoya but, in the case that the accusations were not true, I wanted to have an open mind.

with absolutely no corroborating evidence.

I would be surprised if his personal and professional life is going to be “ruined” based on those two tweets. Men have been actually accused of rape and gone through the legal process (Bryant, Roethlisberger, Winston) and not had their careers or lives ruined. Bill Cosby was accused of rape by multiple women a decade…

She’s trying to dig herself out of a whole; she has not changed her mind. This is gaslighting a victim while claiming to support her for twitter points, aka fucking vile. She should have never said anything in the first place, but what’s made it worse is her trying to now claim a moral high ground about supporting…

Oooooooooooooof, that passive aggressive “thanks” is the worst given this context. What a douche canoe.

Fuck her

Rather than log off, Gaby has shamefully deleted the majority of her comments (except for the martyr stuff that she thinks makes her look good), leading some of the users who called her out to post screenshots:

“Hey, you know, you shouldn’t....like....just assume a rape victim is lying...”