That’s good to know, all I have to do is ask. But seriously? Don’t tell me what is or isn’t significant. Your experience is not my experience, and having been in a relationship where there was no sexual activity for over two years feels extremely significant to me.

Honey, one of the hardest things about being banned from jez has been not being able to check up on you. Finally just gave in and made a burner. Also, I finally got the Adopt a Non-Voter website, Twitter account and Facebook Page set up, so I am ready to begin publicizing that, and I had to tell you guys about it.

That sounds terrible :( if possible, next time she visits take an extra day off work for yourself after she leaves. This has somewhat redeemed family “vacations” for me

I’m so sorry for your loss.

Similar weekend happening for me lol

Well I’ve not had a great week. I was diagnosed with a miscarriage on Wednesday (9 weeks) and booked in for a D&C on Friday. I’ve never had a miscarriage before. The D&C went well, propofol is a great thing. Now I just don’t know what to do. Do I try again? What if I have another miscarriage? How many miscarriages and…

I like this advice. The only good friend I have that has done that type of thing ended up being totally common sense about it and closed up shop when reality struck. I don’t know why people lose their minds on this crap. I’m bombarded with Rodan+Fields pleas from people I barely know- no I don’t think it works- it’s…

My first suggestion would be to post this in Reddit on r/antimlm because you’ll get a large audience.

Jezzies, I need help with a friendship issue.

I rent from a close friend who is a health nut, deep into the oils, etc. etc. That’s fine, not 100% for me but I don’t see anything wrong with it for those who it brings happiness to. Since I moved in over a year ago she has formally joined an oil MLM and is adamant that…

Next time he asks, tell him you’re posting about vibrators and that you’d like one. Seriously, it would be a good segway.

I have zero recommendations but I have to say I did not like any of the Drunk Elephant line. Given the price and the hype, I expected wayyyy more. I’m glad the stuff I got was a gift and I didn’t spend the money (not that I would have) on the products or I’d be really annoyed.

Beauty thread?

That face! Sending lots of good thoughts for your kitty! Our cat had a health scare earlier this year and it ended up being constipation. We switched her to wet food and she is better than ever! And they have nine lives so she is going to be around for a while ;)

I’m so excited to finally not miss SNS! I’ve been collaborating with a local yarn dyer to turn some of my tattoo designs into embroidery kits, and I am super excited about it! This will be the first one. The design just needs some simplifying to fit into a 5" hoop.

Well I had a baby ten minutes before Monday was over. The placenta decided to rip itself away from my uterus in some sort of attempt to kill us both. That was the least fun I’ve ever had, but fortunately my intuition brought me to the hospital an hour earlier.

Also, not to derail too much, but can we also talk about how Duckie Dale taught a generation of guys that pushy, entitled, Nice Guy behavior was quirky and adorable rather than being borderline stalkery?

Me included, by the way. I spent a LOT of my teens acting like garbage because I thought I was a Manic Pixie…

It was the most frustrating thing to read through.

Wow, that sucks. I don’t understand this system. Stalker trolls making actual threats have to keep it up for a while to get the ax but one catty day and a regular is out? Man.

The last time I saw Cookies go at it with someone it was when someone was misconstruing her words and then trying to shame and mock her English even after being told that English is not her first language (even tho I feel like nearly everyone should know that by now). And I see crap like that all the time.

Yeah, it’s really frustrating sometimes. A few months ago I found out I was banned on all the Giz sites (with my “regular” account) and after checking some old things I (thought) I’d posted it looks like I got banned like 2 years ago or something for who knows what. I tried to find out but got no response.

Late last…