That is infuriating and f*cking hurtful. Are you doing okay? oh nvm you wrote you are :)

I agree! I feel you. I almost want them to just spit it out so I can just start preparing for whatever. I've been called paranoid up and down for sensing these things but unfortunately, I turned out to be right. Sometimes being right isn't fun.

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the entitled white moms and their entitled daughters relationship is fukking pathological. i've also detected some curious slightly incestuous undertones in the treatment of white women by their male family members- like they will "protect" their sisters from any and all consequences, no matter how shitty their…

don't even sigh, just chuckle. they can NOT handle you being nonplussed at their passive-aggressive bs and generally being a better person than they EVER will be.

A+ for flickuhdawrist

wow. grocery store seems to be the motherlode of racist microaggressions for a lot of us. co-sign- if you can't show some goddayumn humility and treat me like a human being, you will not be "excused" by me. and the attempting to burn a hole in me with your eyes? try to be superman all you want, i welcome every…

.this. people are so incredibly incompetent/unelegant in their wannabe stealthy stare…I catch them in their staring and then, if they dare look again, I refine my I-WISH-YOU-WOULD-stare with just a slightly upturned corner of my mouth…implying the beginning of a smile and that i'm an infinitely superior person in…

YES I SO AGREE. I do this when I get out of the bus and you know how people will just enter IMMEDIATELY and sort of disrupt your exiting? I've made a change and told myself that's enough. From now on, low key elbows out, and forward with a vengeance. It feels AMAZING. Then I turn back around to see the dumb looks on…

oh my god. i both intensely enjoy this in a primal way as well as worry about what happened to the cashier… :/

one time, i rode the tram when i was about 12 or so, and since i was reading, an old white lady asked me whether i could "already read and write" german (my native tongue). as in, i must not speak it bc i'm obviously some kind of refugee or something. at that age i felt a little combative so i told her i was the top…

thanks for asking! i'm in remission, but the psychological (and consequently psychosomatic) aftermath was a little unexpected…but it's getting better. my immune system was kind of stripped away by the chemo. yep, i hate what our culture does to insecure white girls. my bf's mom was pretty much a textbook, conniving…

ooooh okay. phew. because that process of everyone around you contradicting your reality can be very maddening…they'd deserve to be punched, as well (now that I think about it, my dad has on numerous occasions TOLD me that I'd been wrong about an assessment of a situation I felt had involved some racist issues- he's…

tell stories NOW. Some inspiration. Right when I started my chemo 4 years ago, I met my now bf of almost 4 years and we've been super tight. He doesn't speak to his family anymore bc of how horribly they treated me; specifically the sister and his mother. They were both super basic wypipo, and I really have to…

wait, they straight up entertained the notion that you made it up? kind of people who say "pulling" the race "card" a lot?

So true, the more knowledge you absorb, the more your attitude will shift towards integrating the "i know that i know nothing" with 100% certainty EVER mindset. Oh wow that is even more interesting; I have a huge curiosity abut religion/Christianity and the bible in particular. So which is the basis for JW? I have a…

YES SO MUCH is every one feeling this comment as much as I am? This is very emotionally evocative…I've had white ladies trying to subtly passive aggressively shove me or shopping cart in back while in line for the cash register… and other assortments of fun experiences with all shades of racism. Any one else have a…

OMG!!! LOOOOOOOLLLL¨!!! You're the effing Queen for that. Queen because I honestly don't know how you were able to not do MORE. Holy cow - that conniving passive aggressive backstabbing pathetic white lady bs is why I cannot yet completely eradicate the b word (rhymes with shmitch) from my vocabulary. I just NEED to…

yup yup basically you're kinda awesome, you mean. i agree, i'm very into it. it's great seeing a constructive mind kind of obsessed (or that's what THEY say, you know…) with detail/efficiency/clarity - to see that mindset reflected in your writing, except your version sounds like you're a frequent and smart writer. i…

lol dis guy n his "arguments"…he's funny!