@ceejeemcbeegee: I'm really not trying to blow this up, I was more pissed at what Habibi said and the fact that it was compounded by your vignette.

@lfw1031: Thank you for saying much more succinctly what my tired-ass end of week brain is trying to get out. I just hate the very un-sisterly vibe of bitching about, as you said, "weak dumbass" girlfriends. If you think your white girlfriends are such idiots, than why even be friends with them?

@ArmCandy: I didn't say ALL cops are like that, I said SOME. I agree with your statement.

@habibi: From [feminist.com] on "Blaming the Victim;"

@ceejeemcbeegee: I will proudly admit to being judgemental of cops because I've seen/heard/experienced first-hand WAY too much abuses of power by them. And I personally think it's a "lesser evil" to judge/be critical of PEOPLE WITH POWER WHO HAVE ACCESS TO GUNS than a whole race/gender of people (white females.) I…

@teapartys_over: Ugh.

@ceejeemcbeegee: Really? So what does the fact that she's white have to do with it? Sounds your like she's just a woman with serious issues, as a supposed FRIEND, maybe you should help her out instead of making judgements based upon her race.

To add to that, in a perfect world no woman would ever have to put up with another guy's B.S.

@habibi: How can you you make rampant generalizations like that? I have several white and latina close girlfriends and they ALL (including myself) have put up with CRAZY shit from men throughout the years. Yes, it sucks but NOBODY'S perfect. I have white friends who would never put up with the crap some of my latina…

Did you guys click on the story link? ouch

@ae38: WTF??

Yeah, so what if she WASN'T genuinely pretty? Would it be any less sad.

And after the second waxer lady complained at how abnormally coarse and unruly my hair was down there I was a little annoyed at the whole idea.

Why does her hair look powdered?

I've been waxed twice. The first time, not so bad and the second time was absolutely tortuous and bloody. eek.

Herve Leger much?

@coochiemama: HA!

Her tank-top toootally has weed leaves on it.

@BAngieB: Hells yeah. I've totally thought of that myself.

@brechtgirl: I have had chronic and sometimes very serious asthma my whole life.