" You ask if I am aware of situations in which black people say something is racist and yell a lot about it when in reality it isn't, and I honestly have never seen this happen."

Modern day conservatism is EXACTLY like a cult in every single way.

OK, so apparently you didn't read her comments and I literally copied and pasted them and only changed a few words, mostly "dick" for "pussy" and "him" for "her".

"I'm older than you, btw, and always found the door-opening/steering/etc. annoying/awkward, but often put up with it because guys got huffy if I didn't let them get up on stage and do the chivalry thing"

It sounds like maybe you got weird about it, like an attitude, and yeah, that would sort of freak me out to if I were the guy. Why would you have such an issue with a guy who wants to buy you a drink or dinner? It sounds to me like you have insecurity issues, like you feel you needing to prove you're equality, and if…

I was sarcastically referencing how men do things we don't want to because it makes our girlfriends or wives happy. That's how healthy relationships work. This girl sounded like a selfish bitter bitch interested only in her own needs. LOL, imagine if a man posted "I let her suck on my dick and all she gets is a pat on…

Women are sexualized in our media, no question there. And while you may be able to find the occasional "bimbo" as a cast member of a show, the primary marriage dynamic is almost always the same. He's a moron, she's the smart one who holds it all together and fixes his mistakes. I would list the shows, but seriously…

I definitely got the feel from her comments that she didn't give a shit whether a guy wanted a blow job or not, she was getting hers and he wasn't getting a blow job, take it or leave it.

LOL, that dude has issues, be glad he did you the favor.

You should learn to choose your words better. When you say "misandry isn't real", I assume you mean....misandry isn't real. That being said, your point that it doesn't have the same real world effect that misogyny does is absolutely true.

I would never pressure someone to give a blow job, I simply would choose not to date that person. That's not the point here. Any man or woman is free to say they won't give oral, and look for relationships that work that way.

Pearl, you sound absolutely unreachable, but I'm going to give this a shot anyway for posterity's sake.

You don't think misandry is real? LOL, like seriously? The hatred of men? You think there aren't lots and lots of women who have a fundamental hatred of men? Wow, I can't believe I wasted valuable time on someone THAT out of touch with reality. My knee jerk reaction is to tell you to turn off Fox News, because usually…

That's all lovely, except you completely ignored this woman's actual comments, which were in essence, "from this day forward I am demanding any man I am with to go down on me, but I refuse to reciprocate". Ironic too, considering she apparently came to this decision after admittedly being with assholes who did the…

She's not "implying", she's stating you'll give but never receive, deal with it.

This the same significant other that demands I go down on her?

Well I'm open to that being true. I'm 40 so I grew up in a time where gay men were openly mocked, the butt of jokes and even hated, and that includes on the playgrounds I grew up on. I've been so progressive for my whole adult life I guess I just didn't consider that as possible.

Geesh, must be pretty sad out there if I get a pat on the back for that!

Maybe you're right, but why wouldn't we just assume that as a straight man I'm genetically wired to be attracted to women only? What reason would there be for nature to implant a sexual attraction to men in me - nature's only goal is for me to procreate, right?

I'm hoping you understand I was accusing you of those things, meaning the same thing (only reversed) of what you accuse men of and that was just sarcasm.