I can only speak of my own experiences and people I know, but I feel like most guys I know go down on their wives often, but don't always get a get a blow job in return, sometimes far less in return. There's a reason why trying to get blow jobs once you're married is always joked about. I can tell you I go down on my…

All people are not bi-sexual. I am as gay-friendly as it gets, but for me personally, the thought of kissing a man (let alone doing anything else) is literally revolting. I imagine I'm genetically hard wired that way, whereas gay and bi-men are not.

Totally, I can't even imagine it. I hear a lot of women saying it's common, but I seriously wonder is that's a generational thing. I'm 40 and eating pussy has always been universally hailed by all the guys I've known. Maybe the younger douchebags are selfish pricks, wouldn't surprise me one bit.

I was joking, my wife and I have great sex, when we can (we have 2 small kids). That being said, it's AMAZING how so many women here, like yourself, are so egregiously guilty of all the things you accuse men of - misandry, sexist attacks, etc

No, you misunderstood or I wasn't clear. I brought up "buying dinners and valentines day extravaganzas" and so on because those are just some traditional things guys have done for women that they don't necessarily like to do, but they do it because they know it makes them happy. The reply was SPECIFICALLY in response…

again, is she free to look for and engage is such relationships? Sure. And I'm free to think she sounds like a selfish raging bitch.

LOL, you really need to make me out to be a misogynist don't you. It's either get in line or you hate women.

I'm married....I take any sex I can get. :)

I would have said the same thing about Gawker. I assumed Gawker has the same general make up and mob-mentality

Is Jezebel a hard core feminist site? I honestly didn't know if it is. I was on Gawker and the article brought me here.

I was on Gawker and the article directed me here. I don't even know what Jezebel is. Some of the responses have been fine, others reactionary and illogical.

EXACTLY.

I don't know that he doesn't want them, she doesn't say that. What she does say is that because she dated a lot of assholes who wouldn't go down on her after she gave them BJ's, she is now going reciprocate by ONLY dating guys who will go down on her while she will refuse to EVER give another blowjob. In other words,…

Modern day feminism, with the rise of social media, scares the hell out of me - and I'm a hard core liberal. They really hurt the liberal name and many of the causes with their militant mob mentality that anyone who doesn't parrot their thoughts and opinions to the letter on any given subject is a "rape-apologist" or…

First, we don't know that he hasn't asked for blow jobs, she doesn't mention that. All she says is that since she has dated asshole guys (I'm guessing young guys, this not wanted to eat box thing must be a younger generation things) who didn't eat her out even though she sucked their dick, she is now going to…

That's what they do, so detrimental to their cause and they don't even realize it.

I'm married with kids, and I never had problems getting dates, and when I did I always paid unless she really wanted to - I was raised with such chivalrous manners.

LOL, really? Geez...I fucking love it. :)

Not really, I'm making the assumption that any person would feel slighted if they we asked to do something for their significant other that they refuse to do it return.

Who ARE these men? No one I know. And why the hell would any woman put up with that?