I was on Gawker and the article directed me here. I don't even know what Jezebel is. Some of the responses have been fine, others reactionary and illogical.

EXACTLY.

I don't know that he doesn't want them, she doesn't say that. What she does say is that because she dated a lot of assholes who wouldn't go down on her after she gave them BJ's, she is now going reciprocate by ONLY dating guys who will go down on her while she will refuse to EVER give another blowjob. In other words,…

Modern day feminism, with the rise of social media, scares the hell out of me - and I'm a hard core liberal. They really hurt the liberal name and many of the causes with their militant mob mentality that anyone who doesn't parrot their thoughts and opinions to the letter on any given subject is a "rape-apologist" or…

First, we don't know that he hasn't asked for blow jobs, she doesn't mention that. All she says is that since she has dated asshole guys (I'm guessing young guys, this not wanted to eat box thing must be a younger generation things) who didn't eat her out even though she sucked their dick, she is now going to…

That's what they do, so detrimental to their cause and they don't even realize it.

I'm married with kids, and I never had problems getting dates, and when I did I always paid unless she really wanted to - I was raised with such chivalrous manners.

LOL, really? Geez...I fucking love it. :)

Not really, I'm making the assumption that any person would feel slighted if they we asked to do something for their significant other that they refuse to do it return.

Who ARE these men? No one I know. And why the hell would any woman put up with that?

I respect that, but let's be clear - no one WANTS to pay for anything. They do it to please you, or because they like or love you and want to show you. LOL, kinda like blow jobs for a lot of women I suspect.

Not getting blow jobs may not necessarily be a deal breaker....but not giving blow jobs and then demanding he go down on you...my advice would be to RUN, not walk, away.

LOL, whatever you need to tell yourself.

This isn't about "blow jobs", it's about the extreme selfishness required to demand a guy go down on you while refusing to do the same. Why any man would be with such a raging self-centered bitch is beyond me. And I would say the exact same thing if it were vice-versa - if a guy demanded she go down on him while…

Resentful? No. I just find the woman who wrote this rather revolting. It's one thing to say I don't like blow jobs, it's another entirely to say I don't like blow jobs now go down on me.

LOL, yeah, that's what I figured the female responses would be.

Those dudes have never gotten a great blow job. :)

Of course. But that wasn't the tone or implication of the comment I responded to. This woman wants to get eaten out but not return the favor. Then the woman I responded to was like "yeah fuck you guys, no one owes you anything".

I wouldn't be interested in that. But I'm a person who cares about making my significant other happy.

I agree with everything you said. The bottom line is this chick is raging bitch.