Do not take a job as a secretary. Don’t do it. There is nothing wrong with being a secretary, but if you don’t want to be one, the easiest way to get pigeonholed for YEARS in secretarial work is to take a job as a secretary. It is VERY hard to break from secretarial to analytical types of work. I took a…

I mean the reversal doesn’t always work. Vasectomies, if you’re tested and cleared after an appropriate amount of time, which for some men aren’t, it’s basically a done deal.  The reversal doesn’t always work, is what our urologist told us.

Definitely a good option if you aren’t sure you’re done having kids.  Lots of people are, though.  

I didn’t tell my husband to have a vasectomy. He volunteered. In fact, I believe his words were “I’m never putting you through that shit again.”

I’m not going to spend a shitton of money and get cut open again for no reason. Tubals are much pricier than vasectomies. It’s silly to do both when one is a very minor, mostly reversible procedure, and the other is not.

I’m just operating on what our urologist told us about it.  I wish I could remember the statistic he said, but alas, I do not.

I could totally see having another kid in a couple of years but not actually being pregnant ever fucking again.  FUCK that shit.

Vasectomies may be possible to reverse, but it isn’t 100% successful. It’d be lovely if there was a truly reversible permanent birth control for men.

The difference is that none of the stuff you just listed is believable. No one thinks “Man, Star Wars captured exactly what it is like to be in a band of space rebels,” or “Hey, that’s not what it is like to be a puppet and go on a caper!”

God DAMMIT, put a trigger warning on that picture, would you?  That fucker has given me nightmares since the 80s.  CHRIST.

Capricorn would be the scariest.  He’d order you around and then organize your shit.

I never have experienced racism because I’m a white woman, living in America. However, I do understand what it is, as my eyes are open and I take the time to try to listen to other peoples’ experiences.

From your comment history, it appears that you do not know what racism is, which is a pretty common thing, and puts you in the same group as the people I was talking about.

Okay, assuming your premise is even remotely accurate, what do you suggest is a better approach? If we can’t scold people for having evil, garbage opinions, what are we supposed to do?

I think there is a very very good chance that these people literally don’t know what he did. People like these see headlines and all that they understood was the part about the fact that Hader has upset many gay and black people. A whole heap of people think that upsetting liberal whiners should get you a medal.…

One issue is that your PTO is not necessarily worth the same as the PTO of your co-workers, and companies worry that if they allow a lower paid worker to donate PTO to a higher paid worker, they’ll lose money. And of course, companies would never restrict PTO donation to people who make the same amount of money they…

We call them “popsackles” in our house, mainly to irritate our almost six year old.  It works!

Possession of illegal drugs is illegal. Selling of illegal drugs is illegal. Having a positive drug screen is not illegal unless you are pregnant in many places. That’s what we’re talking about. There are special laws against taking illegal drugs while pregnant that are different from the laws regarding the same…

Women are not always, or even mostly, prosecuted for homicide if they do drugs when pregnant. That is jurisdiction specific. Plus, I don’t think there has ever been a case where a woman has been prosecuted for homicide for taking coke before she knew she was pregnant. Please provide a citation.

It’s silly to even think that America as a whole even has a “culture.”