I’m relatively close to 40 and I literally just found a haircut that works for me for the first time in my life. Who knows what wonders the future could hold for me?!

That’s a pretty good point, it may be a staffing issue.

I kind of want to know your region now, in case these stupid fucking shoes ever ruin my feet and I need to move to do my job without them.

I definitely should have been more precise, I apologize. I certainly don’t think that attorneys in areas where the norms are different are less professional than attorneys here, just because we have to dress the way we do.

What the fuck is this “myth” about people over 40 being incapable of looking good? Who thinks like that?! I mean, I get that there’s Hollywood pressure to be young, yada yada, but ffs, wasn’t she ON television in her 40s?

I’d remove “at this time” and put “ever.” But yeah, easy enough.

Yeah, I’m really sad for all of them. Truly.

Do you also live in the Deep South? Because the norms are different across the country, from what I understand.

That’s a shitty, racist thing to say.

I have no doubt that influencers make the world a shittier place, but to call it a “nightmare” to have to respond to emails is a bit silly.

I mean what is there to lose for the hotel, clearly the influencer would lose out on a free trip!

Seriously, I’m sure many hotels have zero problem not responding or just responding with “you have to pay to stay.”

I think the difference between what I’m suggesting and the White Moose thing is that they specifically came out against influencers. A generic “nope” works much better.

Seriously, or just ignore them altogether!

Oh nooooooes

Is it really that much of a “nightmare” to tell people they can’t stay for free at your hotel? Just come up with a form email to copy and paste, ffs. Something like “If you would like to make a reservation, here is the link to our website.” What the hell is there to lose by doing that?’

Thanks! The one silver lining here is that I have time to Jez for the first time in a long time!

I include wedges in heels, really. They may be slightly more stable but they still put your feet in an unnatural position.

I want to make something perfectly clear: I do not care to have a conversation about incels with you. Your views have been made crystal clear and I do not think anything is to gain by discussing it further. You and those that believe as you do are part of the problem and encourage violence against women. Kindly fuck…

The dickishness will out eventually. I have been home sick with nothing better to do so I looked back a couple of pages into his history and he not only defends incels, he told someone he was a better feminist than she is. What a lovely person.