I’ve read allll the comments tonight (yeah, my life is exciting) and this thread is my (almost) favorite! The misunderstanding is fucking hilarious and the kindness shown by both of you is really cool too.
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You think you can’t but I think you can find a better living arrangement than this person.
Congrats and I hope to be you in 5 years.
Don’t give any Orange Asshole supporters one moment of pleasure.
I am an alcoholic and the best thing you can do for both of you is leave. He might die but it sounds like he will no matter what. You need to take care of you. Your whole life is in front of you. Be strong. Thrive. Our issues are not meant for our kids to burden.
Hey, congratulations!
As someone who has been turned on by the hatefucking potential of several trump supporters/republicans... they always disappoint. Always. Don’t do it. Masturbate.
Ignorance, misogyny, racism, homophobia, and transphobia are not sexy. Full stop.
He’s entitled to his feelings, but he’s not entitled to use his feelings to be a dick to you, which is what’s happening here. I’d recommend that he check out The Art of Manliness, which has a post about supporting your wife through a miscarriage. As for what to say, pointing out how common it is isn’t assholish to me;…
I’m so happy for you!!! All the good vibes/ thoughts/ prayers are headed your way, I remember you talking about how you wanted another!
Yeah, no. This guy’s dick should shrivel up and fall off, or at the very least he shouldn’t get fucked by ANYONE until Cheeto Mussolini is out of office. If it’s unbearable, indulge in some self love and fantasize, but do not fuck him. Please. For all of us- don’t fuck him.
Don’t do it! No orgasm is going to be worth the crushing sense of shame that follows—and frankly, I don’t trust anyone that selfish to be any good in bed.
Absolutely not.
My husband told his command that he was taking his ball and going home and they said, you’ve been here twenty years get the hell out. He’s officially retired from military service, has been gone more than he’s been home and is just tired. He had a good career, done a bunch of good things, seen stuff he doesn’t talk…
You’re not a horrible person for taking care of yourself. That’s what this is really about, making sure that your needs are a priority. They should be - you’re the only one that knows what you need, what you can and can’t put up with, and what this situation is doing to you. There’s absolutely no shame in standing up…
This could be horrible advice but it works for me. I lie to myself. No joke. It sounds stupid at first, but fake it until you make it is a thing for a reason. I tend to underestimate me. Everything in my life says I’m doing okay but I have a tendency to doubt it. So if I’m having a really dark day, or in one of those…
I just found out I’m pregnant. My husband is out of town camping with the kids. I’m freaked out. Like happy, but I’m four years post repeat loss and never thought I’d be doing this again. Aaaaah!