I am *so* flattered to be ask to ungrey someone but I am greay myself!

I don’t know, I got 66 stars, someone was convinced.

I am learning that I am the only one who thinks Blake is cute as the dickens and charming as hell!

Yes, your opinion is much more important because you are a mother. Please go on.

I’m not really busting your balls because we are all just doing the best we can in this world, but are you being ironic here or do you really think your hands are cleaner than others’?

Why does everyone hate Gwake so much? They’re so cute!

I don’t know, my graduate degree is in the humanities and I spent my 20s doing coke and now I’m a director at a leading firm in my (non-humanities) field, maybe you just have to be smart and not an asshole?

The appeal to special knowledge (“If you had a son...”) is the most ridiculous in sophistry’s rhetorical quiver. I get to weigh in even without having a son (or daughter). You don’t get extra votes just because you squeezed out a boy.

It’s a bullshit article. No one was making any kind of accommodation for girls. Now that the world has changed it’s imperative we change it back to make things “safe” for boys? No way. The world is already advantageous for them in a million ways.

I think your partner probably has different standards of “comfortable” than you and it’s wrong to hold that against him.

Your friends would really stop being friends with you if you didn’t send them thank you notes?

Why in the world would you do this even one time? Complaining about his failure to do his own Christmas cards is totally misplaced. You never had to do it in the first place. This is just martyrdom. And if he complained because you didn’t do it for him, go ahead and feel free to find yourself a new partner.

“It suggests to me that there is a detachment to home that I do not have the luxury of having,” she tells Hackman. “Because if I did, then our everyday life would be a nightmare. So I take on that role. That’s not my authentic self, but I have no choice.” The author posits that even if nature didn’t make us better at…

Great. So they’ll be giving back all those paychecks they cashed?

Whatever happened here didn’t really have anything to do with you—there’s no right or wrong way to respond in that situation, it’s fucked up. But it’s mostly *his* fucked up and it was his responsibility to maintain a relationship if he wanted to and you shouldn’t feel guilty about not responding.

I think three months of silence is pretty strong evidence that the relationship is over :( .

Yeah, that is totally true. It is unbelievable bullshit and unacceptable. But too many people can’t see that even when it’s pointed out to them, which makes setting the boundary and setting it hard even more important to me.

People who criticize the state of my house, including my mother, are no longer invited into it. If you don’t set boundaries you can’t claim people for transgressing them.

Men kept their space at the level of cleanliness they wanted—that’s staggering? People can have legitimate differences of opinion as to what constitutes an appropriate level of cleanliness. Refusing to contribute to getting it to the level you want is indefensible, but just having a different level from you is normal,…

If the man wants things clean and refuses to help get it there, no sympathy. But if he truly doesn’t give a shit if the bed is made every morning or the kitchen is a mess for days at a time or if the bookshelves are covered in dust, I’m hard pressed to see why they’re responsible for doing things. Sure, if it’s…