You’re right, it’s not at all surprising that kinks line up with rape culture and misogyny — we all live in a world full of rape culture and misogyny, and kinks are deeply influenced by environment.

THANK YOU.

Nah, they knew for years and didn’t drop him until he threatened their ethical image. They’ve also had a couple unrelated worker’s rights scandals in the past, notably concerning Kink Live.

Joanna Angel dated him for 6 years, hasn’t shot with him in a very very long time, and has been upfront about despising him even before all this came out. She’s giving a radio interview about it tonight, so I’m guessing you’ll get some answers.

I’m sorry, but being the “best at fucking” is a GREAT claim to be able to back up with a trophy.

I hate to tell you this, but guys who don’t do BDSM porn rape their girlfriends all the time.

Update from Joanna Angel, linked because I can’t figure out how to embed.

“Whorephobia” is a term that’s been used by sex workers since the 70s. It’s not “trendy” and it describes a phenomenon that gets people killed. So fuck off.

This is some victim blaming bullshit.

When has she undermined other women’s experiences? Links please,

It’s gross to use her rape to push a political position she is vocally opposed to.

She worked in PR and she proved she was terrible at her job. Of course she got fired.

I’ve been naked on the internet (by choice, but for money) since I was 19 and I don’t know whether I’d make that choice again but it’s very nice to sext with no worries about where my nudes are going.

I only have freckles when I’ve recently spent time in the sun. In winter I am freckle-free.

If you read “entertaining and fun” and immediately think “dumb it down” you’re probably not a particularly entertaining or fun person.

Um, duh?

Honestly, I think this is good advice. I’m a straight woman, and this is pretty close to how I approach dating myself. Keep it low-stakes and focus on having a pleasant time with the other person.

Maybe tangential, but only slightly:

As far as I can tell, the only difference between an ultimatum and a “so this is what I’m looking for so if we’re not on the same page let’s part ways” is the delivery.

I mean, she can feel how she wants about it but at the end of the day she wrote a story about a woman getting sex trafficked, assaulted, and raped and then linked to the woman’s instagram because LOL SHE HAS A KID NOW HOW FUNNY.