Well let me spin you a tale. In a somewhat interesting turn of events, I was talking to a couple girls over text who I’d met on there. Eventually it was narrowed down to two. One was an hour away, and one was very local but had some ex drama baggage. I ended up meeting local girl first and we hit it off pretty well.…

4 years ago my friend found his wife on there. so yeah

Probably for the same reason you only see negative shit on the news. No one’s excited to hear about an awesome OKCupid date, they just want to hear about the trainwrecks.

There was a statue of James Buchanan in the park, and for some reason, my weirdo brain decided to say, “Ah, yes, good ol’ Jimmy Bukes,” as if this was a well-known nickname for him. The guy was SILENT, didn’t even crack a smile. Fuck you, dude, that shit was funny.

I’ve never had a long term romantic relationship off of online dating, but a friend (who I met on OkCupid) met her bf on there and the two have been inseparable (and insufferable) ever since. 

This nutmuffin has spent hours watching PUA videos and bought all the books, I guarantee it.

It takes a special breed of loser to NOT pay for drinks and decide the girl owes him. A Craft Beer Loser, if you will.

For some people I think “maybe knowing what they did wrong will help them going forward....” but from the sounds of this particular person, no matter what you say, he’ll tell his friends (if he has any) that you’re a prude / bitch / psycho and never learn.

No one owes you an explanation for why they don’t want to go out with you again, or why they don’t want you to come back to their place.

No one owes you an explanation for why they don’t want to go out with you again, or why they don’t want you to come back to their place. Frankly, it wouldn’t even strike me as like an “oh this person is afraid” thing, but simply that some people have a more personal relationship with their space and don’t let just any…

Oh, girl. I’m sorry. He sucks, and next time, you don’t owe anyone much of an explanation other than “no thanks”, especially if he’s being a jerk.