But you do describe a power struggle - his will overcoming yours. I think a better way to say it is that rape isn’t only about sex.

Me too

Cliff - my dad is the same way. He has an anxiety disorder and he gets super nervous out in public. It turns it into him being controlling and aggressive to servers and such.

Not necessarily. Have white girlfriends who get them done without much fuss.

Gender dysphoria is a recognised medical condition with biological and developmental causes. Lying about your race (while probably stemming from mental illness) is not.

It’s Conor, and no one said it never happens, just that it happens a small percentage of the time. For your one example of a woman who lied I can give you thousands who were raped and never reported it.

That they “never happen” is not a “modern feminist argument” at all. The argument is that they so rarely do happen statistically that it shouldn’t be an automatic consideration.

There was still sexism but feminism was in vogue for both boys and girls. I was a Hole fan from POTI and used to keep every clipping from British music mags. Courtney often complained that her band broke first and that was true. She was on mtv promoting it with Kim Gordon before Nirvana were a huge thing. I had Bleach…

14 year old you will love this doco. trust me.

And I mean, as someone said below, aren’t all rock stars kind of assholes? Is it only funny and cool if they’re dudes?

Was this during her crack phase?

Well yeah. I mean for me as a teenage girl, I related to it way more, the lyrics were better, and the songs overall just as catchy. It’s a great album, I reach for it 20 years later more than I ever would a Nirvana album, largely because LTT was so full of huge, loud passion and hope, while Nevermind is kind of a…

LOL

Hole had huge buzz before she hooked up with Cobain. During the Bleach era and POTI era Hole were the bigger band (they were certainly the darlings of NME and Melody Maker before Nirvana were). I think the sense was that both their new, cleaner sound and attachment to Kurt made them “sell outs” to the existing fans,…

She said that during her crack cocaine phase, I believe, during which time she also said she was bigger than Bob Dylan. I think people underestimate how much drugs have impacted her behaviour negatively.

I mean she might be lying, but Tori has said repeatedly that song is not about Courtney. I think people just assume because of the title.

Even though they were technically skirts when I think of maxi dresses I think of Frida Kahlo (who also wore them to hide her lower half) and there’s nobody more chic. You work those maxis girl.

Between the 17 year old gang-raped in the park this week and the 35 women murdered by their current or former partners in my country this year alone, I conclude we should all eat carpet.

Her sister appears to run the sanctuary, does that change things?

The posts are weird though not so much the animal sanctuary considering her sister runs it and if you’re an animal person visiting the sanctuary would be comforting. But she seems... creepy. That’s all I got, I am sure the police have way more.