Your friend has a point—it's one thing to live with an SO for the first time, but by the third relationship you might be thinking "I give up my Netflix queue order and fridge arrangement for NO MAN NOR WOMAN until they prove worthy."

If you have problems living with a significant other, getting married isn't going to magically solve those problems. In fact, it could make you more bitter if you start feeling stuck. That said, I was with my boyfriend for three years before we got married, and we had a constant long distance relationship while we…

But, if she had waited till marrying those other guys, doesn't that mean she would have gotten a string of divorces? If you can't live with someone, you can't live with them, married or not. Isn't it better to know that you can't tolerate living with a person before making a contract with them?

My moving in with my boyfriend was mostly a financial decision. One rent or two? We were spending every night together anyway. I would expect if someone was moving to a new city to be with me, we'd most likely move in together, not just because we loved each other, but also because it would be significantly cheaper.

100 years! Living alone is amazing. If you deep-clean the place, no one is going to undo all your hard work and leave the sink full of dirty dishes mere minutes after you organized everything just the way you like it. If you leave a sink full of dirty dishes, no one is going to come at you all passive-aggressive like,…

I've lived with a couple of ex-boyfriends for different random reasons. I am so thankful I lived with them before we tried to get married because honestly all of our problems were household-related. I guess I think of that logic as being really backwards because the marriage isn't going to be what makes you good…

I'm in the "not until you're married/engaged/suuuuuuper f'ing serious about a big ass long term commitment" camp but not any moral/ethical reason. I just think people tend to avoid difficult situations or conflict and may avoid ending a relationship because they are living together. The financial and emotional costs…

Yeah, by all accounts, that relationship was super stable and everyone involved was super satisfied.

Funny you say that because there's also a track on album (Wildest Dreams) that sounds like her trying to do a Lana Del Rey song (in a good way).

Also by far my favorite song on the album (followed closely by Wildest Dreams)...But, I thought the video would be more fun...Grittier maybe? There's definitely a special feel/sound to the song. This is a letdown but I'll still play this shit on repeat via Spotify so...Fuck it.

This is my favorite song of hers from the album, hands down, but I just could not get into the music video. It was too... artsy? Which is weird, because I like artsy, but I felt like this was like trying too hard to be artsy, so it just wasn't working for me.

I was very confused when I read "gone with the wind" as a ten year old, never having seen the movie and encountered a lesbian couple in Scarlett and Ashley.

Everybody is reporting this incorrectly. While it may be spoken as "James" it is spelled Yjaiymeise which is a collection of perfectly curated letters that are hand harvested from 100% biodynamic veganic fair trade locally sourced alphabets.

You would think that if he didn't want to take away from the moment he could have just STAYED IN HIS FUCKING SEAT.

You say they cannot do simple arithmetic, however, I would like to direct your attention toward my dear friend, Rose Luck, who says (and I quote):

Beygency don't scare me, I'm a fucking NAVY WARRIORRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

Regarding the Madonna thumb sucking; I don't understand! Is it supposed to be weird? Sexy? WTF? #helpme

I sometimes wonder how many women actually have eating disorders and if I do, but it's just soooooo normalized that we don't even realize it? I'm not talking about throwing up or starving yourself, the very clear and dangerous sorts, but just the sort that is constantly denying, worrying, judging...but we've been…

My husband and I have had this convo - where I explain that his version of healthy and mine are completely different. I'm like, for you, a bowl of cereal or a turkey sandwich on wheat or whatever is healthy. For me, it's a god damn indulgence.