Words have meanings. The meaning of this was condescending as fuck and something someone would say right before they abused someone.

Absolutely would. Or I woud run away because I would be in fight or flight mode. Speaking to a woman like that is condescending as fuck and carries a red flag of "this person is violent and creepy."

You CLEARLY do not.

It's not funny. It made me feel sick. Like that sinking feeling when you see something bad happen. That happened .Becuase you made a shitty sexist joke.

That gave me a visceral reaction like Id been slapped when I read it. This person sounds less like a woman and more like... a creepy person who my gut says is violent.

Please. Belittle women some more.

And it's "with baited breath" not "with bait on my breath"

I mean, that you are totally engrained in cultures (military, and police) that have horrible issues with misgoyny, so it's not surprising that you've internalized a lot of it.

Yes. And that ignrained sexism and hatred is someting I aim to stop. I dont really care what country it is. I'll do my part while you sit on your ass and claim it can't be done and let your friends make iron-my-shirt jokes at you because they're "joking" but joking because they actually think that's what you're good…

Oh Im sure you love the police. Hahaha. Go get some sleep dear.

This isn't what I think is "Acceptable in the us" this is what I think is "acceptable as a human being."

You've been to quite a bit of the world but seem to have learned nothing.

... and I would say "how about a different word" and then get on with the drinking.

Yes... I have a handle on when people are joking. But sexist jokes are also unprofessional?

Ok but 1) that is likely a pretty rare situation between coworkers and 2) it's still unprofessional and anyone hearing might use it as an example to perpetuate the ACTUAL behavior, and not the joke.

Ok but that's not professional staff behavior. I think unprofessional behavior of the staff when interacting CAN (And did) impact a customer's experience, and I dont see why they shouldnt mention it.

If I saw that happening to a woman at dinner, my dinner would be ruined. It makes me ill. So yeah. I'd put it on trip advisor.

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Honestly I feel pity for Jesus. He must just want to ragequit this whole experiment.

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