That's because one can be heterosexual, bisexual, homosexual or Bomersexual. ;)

Neal's radius is notoriously flexible depending on the needs of the plot of the episode in question. This is far from the first time he's crossed it without consequence. Of course, it then springs back to confine him when the plot requires it.

What makes people think she had a dagger to kill Theon with? It looked to me like she used the guard's own dagger on him, which she took from his belt as they struggled.