Anecdotally, I would have to agree that the fetishizing is on both sides of the equation. Very few of my East and Southeast Asian girlfriends that live here (N. America) are with Asian men and many have outright said that they wouldn't date and are not attracted to Asian men as a rule - which is obviously strange as…

Out of the people you know, what do you think the proportion is of Asian women who are willing to date men of any and every race to those who are only willing to date white and Asian men? Because this is a thing.

" Everything we're ever fed is about the humanization of white people."

I think his point was that he believes some Asian women are more attracted to white men because of there ethnicity not that anyone deserves to only be valued by their ethnicity.

I know what you mean. I so often see comments, "Oh, I like him so much, and I know what he did sounds awful but he's so great on that shooooowww..." Whereas I am pretty much hate that guy and think he is a repugnant abusive dickwad. He seems charming and I hear hilarious anecdotes featuring him, but I still think,…

It obliterates the sort of chiseled-jaw classically handsome thing he has going. Bears are just nature's makeup, hiding poor bone structure and defenition.

'Tis a distinct possibility. And I'm not in any way saying that I think he looks bad with it, I just don't prefer him with a beard. Which feels unnatural to even admit, as I am of the mind that whiskers make all men look better.

PEOPLE, DO YOU EVEN JON HAMM?

And yet my book "Smash The Patriarchy Into 150 Types Of Guacamole" hasn't even gotten optioned. Hah-RUMPH.

I know Nicolas Cage is a bit of a joke to people these days but I sincerely love him and think he's a fantastic actor who happens to have been in some terrible movies.

Her premise is revolting. That her husband cooks changes nothing about the fact that her blog is about making enough sandwiches to "earn" an engagement ring.