This might come as a shock to you, but most modern men dont give 2 shits about continuing a line. We just want to enjoy our own life, my great grand kids wont bring me any pleasure when im dead.

If you quit the job to take care of the house and kid what was the problem? I'm just wondering what exactly it was that you did that pissed him off, sounds like you had plenty of time on your hands if he made you stop working. I'm assuming you did clean the house and cook, so what exactly made him leave?

You win the internet for today sir.

"I never said he was automatically more guilty, just that their mutual lack of memory erases [any record of] her consent, but not the signs of sex, and certainly not the common practice of men getting women drunk to try and fuck them. Should she believe that he was not being honest, and that he raped her, he will have…

All you did was post your previous non-answer. I read and replied to that already, it adds nothing of substance.

Where did you adress it? I literally read every single word of your replies and the only thing you keep doing is putting the man more at a fault in a situation where both people are equally irresponsible.

Except that its not a record of his desire to fuck, its a sign fucking happened. If the woman cant give consent when shes drunk, why can a man?

Okay, so you do want to devolve this into name calling. I'm not hard of hearing or reading, theres no need to use caps or fling insults at me, I have done nothing of the sort toward you. Lets try to keep this civil.

"I said to YOU, and ANYONE WHO MIGHT BE READING - DON'T FUCK DRUNK WOMEN."

Again, how does this apply when both are blackout drunk? When you are blackout drunk, you cant consciously decide anything, do you not know the meaning of being blackout drunk?

Here is the problem, you are assuming that the guy wasnt drunk. You keep repeating, dont fuck drunk women. When you're blackout drunk, this isnt a conscious choice you make. Hence the blackout drunk part. Both people would be equally at fault, but for some reason in your mind no matter what happens the guy is ALWAYS…

I'm a bit hungover so my sarcasm detector isnt functioning.... What are you trying to say?

Alright but can you answer what would happen in that scenario? Im genuinely curious. This scenario is incredibly prevalent on college campuses and I've had friend of both sexes, myself included, find ourselves in this situation.

Honestly, my BIGGEST issue with the grey posts isnt that im perpetually in them, or that I have to click show all everytime i wanna read them (because all the good shit is in the greys anyway) but that they make it incredibly hard on the eyes to read, make them blue or some opaque colour other than black or something.…

That's all you got? You guys need to find some new material lmao. Even that chubby cheeked motherfucker is healthier than the whale that is monica lewinsky. No wonder shes walking while hes on a bike, she would literally crush the frame.

It says private residence, not university residence. Meaning off campus housing as opposed to a frat house or university residence. Learn to read.

Its almost as though thats exactly whats happening...

Glad you brought that up, I've asked this question a million times, nobody will give me an answer. Guy and girl go out, roughly same weight, same amount of drinks, same amount of intoxicated. Both black out, no memory. wake up and realize intercourse happened. Who raped who?

What if they forget it in the morning? Does that mean its rape? I say a lot of shit when im drunk that I dont find out till a week later when i see the people I was drinking with.

This is the problem, guys these days basically have to have a video of a woman consenting to protect themselves. Its fucking ridiculous

If they both get drunk, both black out and dont rememeber a thing, and intercourse happens, HOW THE FUCK is the guy the one whos at fault? This is the fucking problem, you want to be treated equally but dont want to share in any of the responsibility.

They're both equally drunk, intercourse happens.Both blacked out and dont remember it. Who raped who?