I think what you are trying to say was that the this type of neglect is the act of someone utterly selfish, and as such, made sure he was taken care of.

Out of context, yes, it's fat shaming, but it wasn't my purpose to fat shame. We will agree to disagree though.

Well he's neglecting her in a multitude of ways. My comment was specifically on her being underweight. Of course I don't have any hard numbers to cite where I can justify my correlation, only anecdata.

I honestly wasn't fat shaming but I think its just as bad when you can afford it and not feed them as when you can't afford it but eat it all when you do get food.

Yes you could, and maybe fat didn't need to be brought up, but I felt it did because I often see a correlation.

Nothing about the situation is okay. You're right, it doesn't matter what size sex color race or anything. To find out that he was slim wouldn't have changed my initial statement one bit since I seen his picture after I commented. However, if he were slim, I'd have different comments and questions. Anyway, I wasn't…

While I am sure there are other reasons to this horrid abuse, my main point for saying what I said was because the 15 yo was severely underweight. Meaning, I bet he isn't missing any meals but yet he can't be bothered to make sure she eats.

I only said I thought he was fat because the 15 yo was severely underweight. Meaning, I bet he isn't missing any meals but yet he can't be bothered to make sure she eats.

I just read it. It may be because that child in question isn't the wife's child, but the husbands. I don't know how neglect accusations work when there are adults in the house but only one of them are the actual legal parents. Any lawyers in the building??

Where's his picture? I bet he's fat and gross looking, Eating all the damn food while watching her deteriorate.

I don't mind that it's a cologne. I wear that too. :) Thank You

I was just over there looking on the website and I was tempted to buy before I tried. ugh. lol

I want it so so bad.

I bet you they have sexy aunts!

lol no worries they follow me around anyways. I'm in my late 20's. (Say 21 if anyone asks you though! ;-) )

I'm courageous enough, haven't yet gone to the store to purchase because I really want to smell the Tom Ford, and I think I might be going through a Chanel No 5 phase.

^ I need recommendations too! I hear Black Orchid - Tom Ford and Opium - YSL are great choices.

Thanks!

o.o please no auto-play vids.

Thank You. I started to feel a bit guilty.