"women fall in love more with things surrounding the guy, rather than the man himself. They'll fall in love with his looks, or his money, or his possessions, or his potential. They'll always want him to improve, or they'll look for someone better, whereas guys will accept a woman for what she is."

thanks!

I don't think anyone likes being judged solely on looks. As a woman, I think it's just that if we get enraged every time we feel judged by our looks, we'd be permanent balls of rage (which, lolz, I feel I am sometimes). And it would be great if we were "allowed" to feel this way, but angry women are all too often…

"For lots of guys, looks are the ONLY thing that matter; for most women, looks are ONE thing that matters."

And the odds are stacked against women physically and culturally. So even though the advantage may not always go to a man in terms of physical strength, he usually still gets the advantage in terms of power and status. After the attempted rape/assault, his word usually holds more weight than hers, especially if he…

haha!! Love that guy:

Lol, I can send her over to you if you'd like. ;)

That shit's so annoying. I even get these as a woman with an obviously female first name. My facebook profile states that I'm married, not looking and I get messages like these all the time, supposedly from "women" who think I'm "cute".

I'm an idiot for assuming this was in the US – I apologize for that. Thanks for answering. :)

Good point. Even if a woman is looking for casual sex, a message like "are you DTF?" sets off alarms. I'd think, what kind of person would start a conversation in such a sexually aggressive way? Someone that's not right in the head, or someone who has issues with women that translate into rape and physical violence?…

I love the assholes in cars. Put them on the street and they wouldn't say boo to a squirrel, but as soon as they're inside a moving vehicle with locked doors they grow the biggest set of balls.

That's interesting. hah Since it looks like no one has asked you yet, I'm dying to know: which side of the country produced more creepy/sexually explicit messages? I understand if you want to maintain anonymity by not mentioning specific cities – maybe just tell us the general region? :)

Funny that they never seem to notice women being positive about sex. It's almost like women don't want to have sex with them.

Aren't a lot of these guys the ones who claim to get shafted because women only date good-looking assholes? Who's jealous here?

Fuck it, I give up. When their top strategists are coming up with things like Operation Bikini Bridge, what chance do our feeble girl brains have?

I dunno, I think Swifties are still a step up from Beliebers.

Oh, I have no doubt you did. :D

That's interesting. One of her fans is called LittleMsSwifty – a young feminist-in-training??

My condolences for being forced to sit through a Taylor Swift concert.