My New Years Eve was similarly underwhelming. Oh well, there's always next year – here's to a fogless 2015! :)
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Don't they say that what you do at midnight on NYE is what you'll do all year? Happy New Year! :)
some really cute wedding ideas...
How do we know Miss Retriever didn't photoshop this picture in order to support her false accusations of rape??
"Something tells me that letter writer #1 bf may be gay and she refused to believe this like a lot of women refuse to."
hah I have never gotten a dick pic either. I was thinking maybe there's something wrong with me? I'm an old married, though, and I've never used online dating, so maybe that's part of it? I refuse to believe it's just that I'm unworthy of dick pics! LOL
I'm the same way; I wouldn't say anything but I would feel slighted by that person.
Speaking as an old w/ no kids, I think it's just that you could use pretty much any clothes to illustrate that point, since clothes tell you absolutely nothing about a person. You could say the same about "ironic lumberjacks" with tattoo sleeves and urban gardens – are they all pretentious as fuck? Actually, don't…
That makes sense; we do agree. I just object to his phrasing – saying that women are "wired differently" implies that it's biologically-based. And though most women aren't bragging about high numbers of sex partners, at least there are less and less women who feel as if sex is shameful.
I forgot to add another reason that women tend to avoid hook-ups, 4) the fear of being beaten/violated/murdered.
Fucking double standards. I agree...I was only "good" because I was afraid of being judged. And sometimes it's not even that you're afraid Jane Doe at work will say something, it's the conditioned cultural response you have. After decades of immersion in this fucked up culture, we are often our own worst enemies. This…
Totally agree, but I'm sad that I let the fear of being judged restrict me so much when I was single. I never hooked up with anyone unless I was in a relationship, and I feel like I missed out!!! lol that would sound so wrong if my husband were to read it...
For women: Can you imagine how much more popular one-night stands would be if there were really no judgment for it? I'm confident that I would have slept with 3x the number of guys than I actually have because, yes, I LOVE SEX just like men.
I think many women feel uncomfortable with "hook-ups" because we are socialized to feel bad about it, not because it's natural for us to be prudes. I'm married now (so out of the game) but there were sooo many times when I was single that I just wanted sex but I never hooked up with anyone because 1) fear of others'…
Reading this reminds me of a friend I had from S Korea, who was barely plump by American standards. She told me that she was made to feel like a whale when she was in S Korea. Finding clothes in her size was an impossible task and she was treated dismissively; salespeople would look her up and down and inform her they…
I never had any problems, either (5'4" and small) UNTIL I flew Spirit airlines once. That was the first time I realized that if I was uncomfortable, it must be hell on bigger people.
Wait, you know how to cure a hangover? PLEASE TELL ME! :) I mean, I know ibuprofen works – to an extent. If you've really crossed the line and you're spinning, I always assumed there is no solution (at least for me)!
Someone mentioned they felt like they took crazy pills when they read people's responses here. I agree. It sounds to me like you were polite from the get-go and this man started being passive-aggressively bitchy by muttering under his breath. Even if he started moving for you and then you realized you needed to put…
UGH A co-worker I had (in Georgia) was telling me her husband wanted to get an Au Pair. Her reply was, "NO WAY, I don't want a foreigner raising my kid!" :/ then she realized she was talking to me (someone with foreigners for parents) and she started backpedaling..."I mean, I want to be the one who's closest to my…