haha I think there are some people who get very uncomfortable if they can't tag and identify you. Maybe they're trying to figure out what racist statements are "ok" to say in front of you...

YES! I don't mind when people ask what my background is. I've had that exact same conversation, though. When you ask the person back, they get all confused – you can tell they're thinking "Why is she asking me, though? She's the one who's ethnic."

That's so true. There's an offensive way to inquire about someone's background, and I think "WHAT ARE YOU" is it. lol

I have been one of those people who used to ask, "What is your background?" I did it because, growing up in the south, I was always asked that question myself. So, since I always felt like I didn't blend in, I would get excited when I'd see others like that. It was more like, "Cool, there's someone else who doesn't…

People are so funny when it comes to race. When they ask me "What are you?" they never believe me when I say both of my parents grew up in Argentina. I'm very pale with very dark eyes and hair, but apparently I look Chinese to a lot of white people. lol

I never understood why it's so hard for many Americans to understand that Latino isn't a race. There are Latinos of pretty much every "race" on earth, if there even is such a thing as race. I think the anti-immigration hysteria has really done a number on this country.

Can we conversate?

Why is Bud Bundy on stage with her?

I agree. By using such loaded terms (whore and slut) I don’t think Rashida’s message comes across. When girls have been conditioned/threatened/bullied to interpret those words to mean someone who’s filthy and worthless, using them is incredibly hurtful. Look at what happens when teen girls are harassed online or at…

lol I think he needs to go to the doctor, he's got a lot of stuff going on down there.

I know I definitely want to GTFO as soon as I start getting railroaded by one of their salespeople.

All they need to do is switch out the female model with me and this ad would be perfect.

I've been hoping to see an article addressing this very important topic for quite awhile. Thank you.

I understand what you're saying. I just think women already get more than their fair share of guilt because women are held more accountable for moral behavior than men. I don't want to pile more shit on someone who's been shit enough on, especially when she didn't betray me, my husband did.

It's natural to get jealous, but I think it's ultimately the responsibility of the spouse not to cheat. The spouse is the one who promised monogamy. I may be personally upset with "the other woman," but I don't think it's fair to lash out at her or try to expose her; she wasn't the one who promised me fidelity.

UGH The other day: girl walks by in very short miniskirt and tights. Guy stops behind her and says, "mmm, I like that booty." She keeps walking and he goes, "You're very attractive." Still keeps walking and he gets mad and starts yelling across the station, "You're not even going to say THANK YOU, BITCH?!!!"

I completely agree. It's all tied up in a big ball of shit. That's why strangers should keep their opinions to themselves!

This is so true. When I was much younger, I lost a lot of weight because drugs/stupid decisions. I was extremely unhealthy and way too skinny but I would get comments on how great I looked, which really fucked me up mentally. I also had some people tell me they were "concerned" about me. But none of those people…

I'm very thin, and I always have been. I do think most people aren't truly concerned about others when they point out that someone needs to lose weight (with the exception of doctors, etc.). Most people know if they need to lose weight for health reasons, and they're made to feel pretty awful about it by society at…

Sorry, I didn't mean to sound like I was attacking what you were saying – I agree with you as well.